Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Lmao. WRONG, idiot.Originally posted by MindOverMatter
6% is near impossible to achieve without dehydration. what method did you use to measure this?
Agree 100%. Dont need to say more.Originally posted by MindOverMatter
It's easy bro! Once you get your bodyfat low to like 9-10%, execrise properly and eat enough protein / don't overtrain, you will gain mass fast. The reason I say have a low bodyfat first is because you will be able to see all your results as you improve, instead of not seeing them due to a layer of fat and being discouraged.
Another reason I say cut first before ever bulking is because most people will bulk properly, but cut improperly, and lose a lot of their gains. At the beginning, when you're still new to itall, it's best to do a clean bulk.
Other then that, the best advice I can give you is, don't worry about what your body looks like, and instead focus on your strength. Try to lift more and more every week. Make goals about how much you can lift, and break them. Focus on getting stronger first, and the body will follow.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
haha, yes I definately agree with this. I have trained for probably about 8 or so years now, in boxing and weights. Although when I go into some of these bodybuilding stores for supplements, they always tell me to eat like a bi*ch to bulk. Then a couple of times, a guy walks in, and they use him as an example. Trouble is, the dude is FAT. He is bulky, but fat. No way I will ever be fat just to bulk. I find I can look twice as good as these guys, cutting first, and then bulking. I would rather be skinny for a while, and still have your facial features and definition showing, than being fat for a while and looking like a slob.Originally posted by Ricky
Bulking is dangerous territory. Proceed at your own risk.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
If you're trying to get a 6 pack, then focusing on your diet is the way to go. You can work your abs all you want, but that effort is nothing if you don't focus on your diet. Other than that, you'll just have firm abs under a bunch of abdominal fat.Originally posted by wildchild
how often should i work my abs i know they get bigger while they repair from the excersise so i dont wanna over do it because it wont give them time to grow so how often should i work them?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Originally posted by MindOverMatter
Hey guys
My daily calorie intake is usually around 5000, sometimes more, sometimes less.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.