“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i want it back

sexy_kuta

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i want my confidence back, the one where i didnt give a fuk if a girl call back or not, i wanna stop wearing my freaking heart on my sleave, im starting to play hard to get now on,

i got a oneitis for a girl that i aint in a relationship yet... its hard for me to game her when i freak out for the little things, and my lack of confidence is slowly pushing her away.

i cant spin more plates cuz i dont find any girl im interested in,
my standards are high, this girl is confident so shes smart,

i want my confidence back!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dont make me he-***** man-slap you...
 

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sexy_kuta said:
i cant spin more plates cuz i dont find any girl im interested in,
my standards are high, this girl is confident so shes smart,

i want my confidence back!!
You know, I kind of had the same thing lately. She was a girl I REALLY liked so much more than anything I'd met in a year or so, and when it fell apart I was kind of in a middle ground confidence wise. I felt good because this hot, sweet girl had liked me and the testosterone was high... but at the same time I was kind of in oneitis-mode and no other girl was good enough to be a "plate".

It's wearing off, though. You just have to FORCE yourself to get in physical contact with another girl... once the heat and the smell of another female body gets to you you'll feel better right away.

Trust me... I went out twice over the weekend with different girls. Didn't screw either but made out with one and did a little more with the other. It wasn't that great but it DID get me back into the game.

Weirdly enough, though... I am still in contact with the first girl and with the new confidence it makes me think I can get her back again (it's not quite over).

Ah, things are never that simple, huh?
 

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UPDATE... realsmoothe you are right and its working..

well what i did was, after my oneitis got me bad today. LIKE REAL bad, i felt dizzy, and felt sick to my stomach.. i said to myself "this aint me.. im better than this... its all in my head, all in my head.. if i change my thoughts it will change my physis of my body' so i cleaned my room hardcore, get my mind busy and ketp talking to myself. saying I still got the confidence in me..

and i just came back from the gym and i feel great! like real great. im tryin to spin more plate..

background: i was the rebound 5 months ago.. gave her space.. so shes back and im tryin to attract her while i have oneitis so its rough. but u know what..

she got my number, she can call me if she wants to hook up, i told her im free this weekend, she giving me bs sayin she got a friends bday and some other ****.. so imma play hard to get with her, shes confident so it should eat her out :p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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THE_ADDMAN said:
Dont make me he-***** man-slap you...
i give u 10 bucks to do it
 

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sexy_kuta said:
i give u 10 bucks to do it

sold. come find me in Canada

Anything to help a brother out


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