"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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there's this girl that is a year younger than me.. I like her but I dun know/think she feels the same way... How can i know for sure and how do i make her feel the same way for me..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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well she is going to sit for a very important public exam soon.... so i dun really think she will be free...besides, wouldnt it be weird if someone just asks u out from nowhere?
 

WalkingStick

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I don't suppose the exam is longer than a day or two.

Asking a girl out is the easiest and most reliable way to let a girl know you like her. It wont be the end of the world.
 

jeffthechef

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poth said:
well she is going to sit for a very important public exam soon.... so i dun really think she will be free...besides, wouldnt it be weird if someone just asks u out from nowhere?
not really, people do it in malls, supermarkets, concerts, etc..all the time
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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well shes kinda like a quiet girl and i dun really talk to her much..but we did went to camp for 4 days together b4, and i really got to talk to her a lot during that time.. made me quite interested into her..but after that we din really talk much.so i dunno
 

jeffthechef

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Nothing bad can happen.
If she says no, there are many other girls. This phrase is really generic, but it only makes sense once you gain more experience. I always had oneitis until a month ago. I realized how many other attractive girls there are, and how they are all unique in their own way.
Just go for it.:up:
 

VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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READ THE BIBLE. The link is in the bottom left of the page.
 

Axcell

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VIVAlasVEGASBaby said:
READ THE BIBLE. The link is in the bottom left of the page.
+1.
Way too many people posting in this section that don't know the basics. This question is answered in the bible. Read it, learn it, love it. That should be your guide for everything and if you still don't know the answer to your question after reading it, than post it in this section.
 

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Ask her out is the best chance of knowing if she likes you back. Even though I've never personally done it, I bet it would be the best way. Im the nerd in class, the techy kid who has been trash canned 4 years in a row. 6th 7th 8th and for the hopefully the last time, 9th. So hopefully it all works out for you. I'd say approach her when she's sitting somewhere and ask if you can sit near her, get a conversation going, and well, go from there.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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