"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah that title sounds horrible AFC/possesive and physco - thats half the posts I have seen on the board today. I dont agree with any of that, but now im feeling it and I hate it. Suddenly it happened to me today, so it feels like I have hit a brick wall and im not sure what do to next.

Im going out with her tomorrow night and then sunday (family thing for easter). So i'm in the car with her driving back and we talk:

Me: "Hey are you going to that girl's party tonight?'
Her: 'Yeah I was going to but decided not to'
Me: 'Oh how come, I thought you were invited'
Her: 'I was going to, but im going with this guy to dinner tonight'
Me: 'Oh ok....' (hit in the face)

This guy turns out to be someone who wants her Pus2y and ive seen them once around and hes totally flirting with her.

How do I work with this? Tomorrow when I see her do I make her feel uncomfortable and say: 'Hey how was your date? Safe sex?' or what?

I got the tools to look good on the outside with this tomorrow, just inside im tearing myself up - In Moulin Rouge there is a quote: 'Jealousy can drive you mad', and I couldnt agree more. I admit im jealous - what do I do tonight?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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See . Your the one who should be asking her out to dinner. its your fault that your not setting up the dates with her.


dont talk to her about it. it will make you sound jelous.
 
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Thats what I did for tomorrow (saturday) - I asked her out, and I didnt ask her tonight because that would be hanging out with her too much...according to the DJ bible
 
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