"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I want her only to be with me

English_Bloke

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Yeah that title sounds horrible AFC/possesive and physco - thats half the posts I have seen on the board today. I dont agree with any of that, but now im feeling it and I hate it. Suddenly it happened to me today, so it feels like I have hit a brick wall and im not sure what do to next.

Im going out with her tomorrow night and then sunday (family thing for easter). So i'm in the car with her driving back and we talk:

Me: "Hey are you going to that girl's party tonight?'
Her: 'Yeah I was going to but decided not to'
Me: 'Oh how come, I thought you were invited'
Her: 'I was going to, but im going with this guy to dinner tonight'
Me: 'Oh ok....' (hit in the face)

This guy turns out to be someone who wants her Pus2y and ive seen them once around and hes totally flirting with her.

How do I work with this? Tomorrow when I see her do I make her feel uncomfortable and say: 'Hey how was your date? Safe sex?' or what?

I got the tools to look good on the outside with this tomorrow, just inside im tearing myself up - In Moulin Rouge there is a quote: 'Jealousy can drive you mad', and I couldnt agree more. I admit im jealous - what do I do tonight?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Phat

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See . Your the one who should be asking her out to dinner. its your fault that your not setting up the dates with her.


dont talk to her about it. it will make you sound jelous.
 

English_Bloke

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Thats what I did for tomorrow (saturday) - I asked her out, and I didnt ask her tonight because that would be hanging out with her too much...according to the DJ bible
 
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