I want her back

[sth-mcr]

long story fellas!

basically me and my ex split up 6 months ago, but were really good friends and still spent time together and were intimate quite often, last week we decided to give it a go and take it easy, but i went and mad e a massive mistake on friday evening and kissed an older woman whilst walking home from the pub!

my exd found out and doesnt want anything to do with me what so ever, she says im a cheat and liar (which is true to an extent)

she means the world to me and it is only this that has made me realise, i cant bear the thought of being with out her, she has helped me through an anxiety disorder which i suffer with. i want her back and make a real go of things but she is shuttin me out of her life

i need something drastic im desperate how can i win her back???????

please help

 

[MidnightResistance]

*man-***** slap*

NO!
Move on.

You're not even seeing this chick and she's *****ing about you kissing an older woman (rock on!).

You sound like an AFC.
I bet £5 you ask out your ex again and she knocks you back.

NEVER go out with someone twice (unless you're just nobbing them the 2nd time) because you will always break up for the same reason you first broke up....only faster and usually without the sex.

 

[jprjrjr]

Originally posted by sth-mcr
long story fellas!

basically me and my ex split up 6 months ago, but were really good friends and still spent time together and were intimate quite often, last week we decided to give it a go and take it easy, but i went and mad e a massive mistake on friday evening and kissed an older woman whilst walking home from the pub!

my exd found out and doesnt want anything to do with me what so ever, she says im a cheat and liar (which is true to an extent)

she means the world to me and it is only this that has made me realise, i cant bear the thought of being with out her, she has helped me through an anxiety disorder which i suffer with. i want her back and make a real go of things but she is shuttin me out of her life

i need something drastic im desperate how can i win her back???????

please help

I get a kick out of guys like you. You come on here whining about how much you love some chick, but you couldn't stop yourself from cheating on her?

You asked for what you got, now don't expect her to take back a cheater.

 

[sth-mcr]

i made a ****in mistake!

are we not allowed to do that in this life. i know i ve done wroing, i am ashamed and annoyed with myself not just for what i ve done but for hurting her.

im the first to admit to being a fool, i just want to prove to her that its worth fighting for cos it is.

 

[chance]

"she means the world to me"

yet you kissed another woman? maybe she doesn't mean the world to you after all. idiot.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by sth-mcr
i made a ****in mistake!

are we not allowed to do that in this life. i know i ve done wroing, i am ashamed and annoyed with myself not just for what i ve done but for hurting her.

im the first to admit to being a fool, i just want to prove to her that its worth fighting for cos it is.

Learn from it and move on. Just don't let it make you become bitter.

 

[MacDiddy]

Sure you made a mistake... and you'll keep making mistakes... coz your human... you have a c0ck... its got a mind of its own....

now that you're desparate... you are going to do desparate things to prove to her that she still needs you...
Look at it from someone elses point of view... Will a chick take a guy back if that guy starts acting like a wounded bull, buying her flowers and being romantic and understanding...

.... I doubt you'll listen to us...

 

[I'm Joe Dirt]

The guys who called you an idiot are right.

I applaud the woman for realizing you're a player a-hole. You don't deserve her back.

Next time don't be a jerk and cheat on your women. Guys like you give the rest of us a bad name.

 

[Jake-inator]

The reason you want her back is because you can't have her. It's human nature. Humans have slaughtered themselves for thousands of years over things like gold and silver. Why? Because they are rare comodities. This is what gives them value. The more people can't have something the more they want it.

Ok, now i want you to b1tch slap that desperation out of you and try to think logically.

Look back on the situation with your girlfriend.

First thing you gotta realize:

She's gone, and nothing you will ever do will bring her back.

She's gone, and nothing you will ever do will bring her back.

She's gone, and nothing you will ever do will bring her back.

She's gone, and nothing you will ever do will bring her back.

She's gone, and nothing you will ever do will bring her back.


Got it?

Now here's something you should think about:
Why did you kiss this older woman if you really liked your girlfriend that much?


My guess is that she doesn't really mean that much to you and this whole panic attack that you're having is due to the lack of security.


The biggest problem most people face in their lives is they concentrate on securities rather than freedoms, and never live their live to full potential because they are so worried about keeping what they have.

Stop concentrating on SECURITY and realize all the FREEDOM you have now gained.

A mistake in your eyes, may be a blessing in disquise. It's all about how you look at things. As i've said many times before, you have to make your own reality.

An example of your situation.

Nice guy perspective:

You're a jerk!! how could you cheat on a girl you love?!? [If you believe this you'll become depressed and want to undo this "mistake" ]

Jerk perspective:

Dude! you made out with a milf. Congrats

[Notice how much more positive the jerk philosophy is. It's hard not to feel good about that kind of acomplishment.]


Life is a lesson and we all have to experience it for ourselves in order to learn something.


Despite everything we say, i'm pretty sure you're still going to make a complete fool of yourself.

So... go out there, and beg her for forgiveness.

Money saving Tip:
Lock up your cash/credit cards before you attempt to "win her back".

 

[backbreaker]

how did she find out?

 

[zerocelcius]

DUDE YOU MADE OUT WITH A MILF....CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!

:crackup:

 

[Senza]

she means the world to me and it is only this that has made me realise, i cant bear the thought of being with out her, she has helped me through an anxiety disorder which i suffer with. i want her back and make a real go of things but she is shuttin me out of her life

It does not seem like you have solved your anxiety problems if anything it seems like you have used her as a crutch.
It is unhealthy to depend on any one to that extent take this as an opportunity to really deal with that issue.

 

[2pac]

H.O.M.O