i want an answer!!

[SgtSplacker]

Dude...

That was painful to read...

The way I deal with women like that?

DON'T PLAY BALL!!!!

Don't play the social media politics game by friending and unfriending, deleting whatever.

Don't play her interests game by waiting for her to finish talking to some dude in german demonstrating your betaness.

You should have given her 60 seconds to get off her german trip. In mid sentence you should have cut her off and said "I don't understand what you're saying, you guys finish your conversation, i'll be over at the bar. WITH A SMILE" Gone over there and grabbed a drink and chatted up some girls or some friends you have at the club and not given her a second thought. If she does not address you for the rest of the night, leave when you are bored never to call her again until she does something to compensate for her rudeness and inconsideration.

Women speak jealousy fluently. You should have gone to the bar and told the first cutie there "hey my date is acting like an ass mind if I buy you a couple drinks?" The right HO would be all over that, girls love being the other woman. The sluttier she looks the greater chances she has to be on board with you and the greater the results would be. Who knows maybe you will meet a better girl at the bar! Position yourself in such a way that your female friend can clearly see you and let the night play out.

Step up your game homie. Desperate times call for desperate measures.

Arthur Schopenhauer said it best when he said:

"Man can do what he wills but he cannot will what he wills."

Some dude on answers.yahoo.com breaks that quote down.

It is a simple, somewhat poetic thought.

Man has the capacity to achieve any goal man sets; however, man's desires (his passions) determine what are the goals that man will set.

In essence, man's desires are not predicated on careful calculation; rather, they are innate. The "heart of man" is autonomous and fickle; it is not driven by reason, but by passions that are ... by definition ... irrational.

The original quote suggests the animal nature of man is a product of genetic evolution; the urges of man are therefore genetically encoded, rooted in the subconscious and not subject to the whims (desires) of the conscious mind.

The original quote further contrasts this against the prowess gained through evolution, the demonstration of aptitude and competence: the combination thereof effectively guarantee the success of man's efforts towards any particular pursuit.

 

[SamTheHobit]

Great advice all round.

Best you can do is find someone better op.

I know how your feeling.. I've been in your position before.

They way your acting I was 10 times worse.

Even after being on this sight for a couple of years I've still pulled some really afc moves that I'm to ashamed to speak off.

It happens move on.. And find yourself a respectful girlfriend.

 

[lamobatsman]

wow good advice
i just wanted to know the truth. i wasnt having this conversation to get her back. just wanted to know where i went rong and why she did it.

im guessing you guys dont think even that is a good idea- even for closure? lol

just accept it and move on and not look back right? never question why

 

[BeDJ]

I had a dog that shat on cement.

 

[Purefilth]

I had a dog that shat on cement.

why?

Why?

WHY?

WHY?

WHY?


WHY DID IT SH!T IN CEMENT?????!!!!!



Get it?

 

[twentee]

guys never seem to learn. AVOID women, until you have a LOT of money guys, like in 1/2 mill $, dudes. Or at least 200k, IF you have 150k or so invested in such a way as to clear 60k a year or more. Work on your body, your fighting ability, and your finances and just let that ***** go. US *****es just AINT worth the $ and the headaches. If they look worth a hoot, they have a dozen guys hanging around, and if they aint worthless *****es, the number of men they can choose from is like 100+..

So the only way to get one who is worth a hoot is to go to the third world, after carefully 'lining up" about 1/2 dozen women who you THINK might be ok. **** them all, spend at least 2 weeks actually LIVING with each one, and then go home and decide. It will take MONTHS after you can prove (with pics, emails, W Union $ receipts, lets, phone bills, etc) to Immigration that you have a LTR with the lady,before they will grant her a fiance visa. all told, the project is going to cost you at the very LEAST 5k. More likely 10k, but then you will have one who's worth a crap. u will have a 5 year "warranty" on her good behavior, because if you divorce her, back she gooes. after getting a taste of REAL life, in the USA, she's going to HATE the idea of returniing!

In order to enjoy this life, you've got to have a way to clear 50k a year or more, without having to do much besides check on the manager of your biz. you can never just turn your back on ANY investment. If you do, EXPECT to be robbed, thru negligence/incompetence, if nothing else. but if you want a woman who is pretty much like you want her to be, you need one who is willing to be TRAINED, and such a US ***** is going to cost you about 100k a year. The foreigner can be made to pay YOU an average of 20k a year, if you put her to work in a 60 hour a week job. So if the $ she can make you means more than the free time with her, so be it. Use her to get the $ to set yourself up financially, then divorce and get the one that you mean to TRAIN, and kick back on that 100k of invested money.

 

[twentee]

gov't STILL gives "preferential hiring" to women and minorities, so they get a '2 for one" when they hire your Latina or Asian bride. That means almost no waiting before she's clearing $600 a week (60 hour weeks). There are states that do not require US citizenship in order to qualify for certain state jobs. No skills required, other than reading and writing in english,a nd if you settle for one who can't even do THAT, you are a fool. millions of lovely young women can do that, and believe me, they WILL ALL want to marry you, sight unseen, if you are just decent to them on chats and email, and if you are a single man with Us citizenship.

 

[twentee]

You don't need to let her KEEP more than $100 a week, man. Make her pay you $200 a week just for bringing her here, and the other $300 a week is for food, utilities, housing, a car, etc. manage this right, and over the 5 years she'll need to become a US citizen (and dump you, or at least, no longer pay you anything) you will get over 100k out of her, beyond what she actually costs you. After the 3rd year, you see, there's a job that will hir her clearing $1200 a week(60 hour weeks) You make the deal for her to have her basic expenses paid, and $100 a week for herself, and she'll jump at it. she thinks in terms of sending home 3k a year and that will make her a HEROINE in the eyes of her family. You may have to live in states/areas that you don't want, but to BANK 100k in 5 years, while doing almost nothing yourself, is a great deal, for the guys who have NOTHING going for them, which is most of you here.