I want a gf that is very physically attracted to me

[donArjun]

yesterday at the strip club, a stripper I could tell was really physically attracted to me, like her eyes opened up and and she was really talkative .. it was a huge rush for me and an awesome experience to have a hot girl be so into you !...

until I stuck around to see if shes like that to other guys or not. .. then I realized that she was receptive to some other guys like this too but not all..so that was depressing.

Then I thought, Theres got to be a girl ( out side of a strip club) that is as physically into me like this that I can make into a GF!


SO far I've only done a few approaches , I have been able to get numbers, and even dates using my personality or confidence... , One girl sees me as long-term candidate but doesn't have that passion or physical attraction for me. ( MAYBE all girls are like this ? )


My looks have deterioted a little, I've lost hair, gained some weight and older now so THIS Rush is not something I get everyday ...

After tasting the rush of pure physical attraction , is there any hope of an average looking guy finding a girl with a lot of physical/sexual interest OUTside of a strip club?

any experience/stories/advice appricated

 

[kdnash82]

Dude... are you serious!?? How many times have you gone out and seen a hot chick with some off the wall dork and thought to yourself, "I'm better looking than that dude... She should be with me."? If I had a buck for everytime I've thought that, I'd be worth millions.

Anyway, you've pointed out the things that you don't like about yourself. Everybody gets old. My older friends (15 years senior) have constantly pulled better looking girls than me. Everybody loses their hair. So what, if you're balding, shave it. I've had plenty of girls tell me that they'd rather have a bald guy than a guy that's balding. If you're feeling a little self conscience about your gut, work out. These are simple things. Overall confidence is what's gonna pull you through. I don't mean to act like you're the sh**, but have faith in yourself.

By all means, stay away from strip clubs. It doesn't matter how much you THINK that girl is into you. She only cares about your wallet. If you plan on blowing money on a chick (which I would advise against), at least make sure you're at least fu***** her.

 

[Poll]

is there any hope of an average looking guy finding a girl with a lot of physical/sexual interest OUTside of a strip club?

Of course there are girls outside of strip club that has alot of sexual interest, they are call prostitudes.

 

[WC2]

First of all, you're very naive if you think a stripper hasn't seen better looking men.

Second, you are under the misconception that girls are going to feel attracted to you because of your looks.

Good looks will sometimes initiate interaction, but you have to carry it out.

I'm a very decent looking man, but I can't spark real attraction from a woman unless I make her feel it. A woman rarely feels attraction just from your looks. She feels it from your body language, your way of going about things, and most of all how manly and confident you are.

There are plenty of men out there who take care of their body to the tee, but women are soon turned off when they find out underneath all those looks is a little boy who doesn't know his head from his ass.

Work on your physical of course, but work on your social skills more. There are far too many guys who spend their whole life in the gym, only to find out that their hopes of attracting women was time wasted.

Going to the gym won't help you attract women. Experience in making women feel for you will.

 

[Bonhomme]

Kdnash82 is right on ... nothing to add, except I disagree about strip clubs. One of my favorite places to grab lunch or dinner when I don't feel like cooking and/or want some eye candy with it happens to be a strip club.

Just because a stripper is looking for money from a guy doesn't preclude her being attracted to him. Just gives her a socially acceptable excuse to act on that attraction a bit more than she otherwise might. One can run with that, and have a lot of fun in strip clubs without blowing wads of cash ... or even spending anything more than the cost of a burger and a brew.

 

[rrrrr]

yesterday at the strip club, a stripper I could tell was really physically attracted to me,

HAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!

 

[Pimp-sicle]

I was watching some stripper special on HBO the other night and they basically follow a couple strippers around and see how their everyday life is and what it all entails. One of the first things out of the hottest stripper's mouth was:

"I usually don't approach the good looking guys who come into the club, I look for the guy who I know I can dominate and that's hard for me when I feel a strong physical attraction for someone."

Now I'm not saying the stripper you saw last night wasn't attracted to you in some way. But as others have already said, these women are the master's and faking everything. They know how to manipulate the dollar bills right out of your wallet and into their thong. Don't be so oblivious dude, she does this same routine to every guy she approaches. Strippers are business-women. They approach guys based on-money, manipulation and ease. If a guy falls into any of those slots you can bet she'll be sitting in his lap and flirting with him.

Finding a girl that has a raw, animalistic physical attraction for you has a lot to do with her personal preferences. But you can help yourself tremendously by improving your body, style, and most importantly your personality. Developing a humourous, light side will do wonders for your woman situation.

Bottom line is that women don't look for the same things in a guy, that a guy looks for in a girl. Learn to weave her emotions into your web and you can literally make any woman attracted to you.





PIMP

 

[onyx]

I've been into a strip like abt 3 times, mainly for friends birthdays but once just because it was free entry and cheap drinks. The first time i went i spent about £20, the other 3 times i been since I just sat there drinking all night and had a laugh and a joke. The strippers come flocking after a while I think they make it a mission to try and get the guy with his money still in his pocket to have a dance. None of em are attracted to you in a way they'd take you in back and let you **** them, they're blatantly after your money. After a while you don't put up the money they're whole attitude changes towards you.

I have attracted chicks in clubs before entirely on my apperance, 3 or 4 times. 1 of them was my sisters friend - wasn't attarcted to her though, she was a hb6, twice these were like hb8's but they came over slutty, and the other was an ex about a hb7

 

[Bonhomme]

But I must add that the best time to have fun in a strip club without spending wads of cash is when the club is not busy. Then the gals are much more likely to make the best out of a situation and hang out with otherwise interesting guys who they would otherwise not approach because they know they're not likely to get a lapdance.

 

[ryannath]

Most of those hot women that are out with dorks are with them because:

1. They can get away with more **** from those dorks because hey, they are dorks! (aka cheating)
2. They would rather have a pet than a bf
3. The dork makes alot of money
4. They like to manipulate guys (can't really do that with a non dork)

 

[faisal]

Most of those hot women that are out with dorks are with them because:

1. They can get away with more **** from those dorks because hey, they are dorks! (aka cheating)
2. They would rather have a pet than a bf
3. The dork makes alot of money
4. They like to manipulate guys (can't really do that with a non dork)

good reasons to hate women.

 

[donArjun]

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