Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I want a GF..lol

LegendBoy

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I have had like 8 chixs in 2 months and I am getting sick of a new chix a week. I want a gf. These girls are gf material thus none of em have been my gf.

Yesterday i wanked 4 times and got two headjobs.lol

I am sick of being a "player". I got chixs i can do **** with when I want. But thats not what I want. I am sick of searching, sarging and tuning chixs for my next "fun time".

Now I want a gf lol. I didn't think i would be like this and want one but I guess i do now.

Finding one is hard. Most chixs are sluts.


Anyone felt was i feel now.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A non slut? That's a rarity. You would be better off playing the lottery or getting struck my lightening, or finding a needle in a haystack.
 

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Get higher standards... eventually a girl that can meet them will show up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's uplifting to see that someone else on here is interested in relationships as opposed to ONS. Well, if you want a gf (and a non-slvtty one), it'll take a lot of looking and patience. Think about what you want in a gf and refuse to lower your standards. Participate in clubs and activities you're interested in and you'll meet girls with similar interests. Avoid bars and clubs if you're looking for relationship material.

My girl and I have been together for three years now. It took a lot of time to find her, but I'm glad I had the patience because she's definitely worth it.
 

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basically wat sca p said. just search according to your standards and you'll find a girl that meets them.

but also, dont be all up tight and have insane standards. and if you find a girl that meets them, but not quite, dont be afraid to hit her up. she could be the best girl you ever had, dont let some little thing get in the way.
also, dont act like your looking for a wife, which means dont keep looking for that "perfect" girl, because that could take years, or you could never find her. what ever relationship you get in just enjoy it while it lasts and dont be worried about making it a marraige.

keep looking buddy, and good luck. you find a gf before you know it:up:
 

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ryannath said:
A non slut? That's a rarity. You would be better off playing the lottery or getting struck my lightening, or finding a needle in a haystack.
There's a bitterness going around that guys consider "Don Juan-Like". Calling every girl a slvt, isn't going to do much good for you.

If you keep focusing on the negatives, that's all you will get. This stupid conception that all women are wh0res is really childish.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LegendBoy said:
I have had like 8 chixs in 2 months and I am getting sick of a new chix a week. I want a gf. These girls are gf material thus none of em have been my gf.

Yesterday i wanked 4 times and got two headjobs.lol

I am sick of being a "player". I got chixs i can do **** with when I want. But thats not what I want. I am sick of searching, sarging and tuning chixs for my next "fun time".

Now I want a gf lol. I didn't think i would be like this and want one but I guess i do now.

Finding one is hard. Most chixs are sluts.


Anyone felt was i feel now.
Completely unneccessary bragging post, and probably BS. Grow up. And learn how to type. "Chix"? Please...:rolleyes:
 
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i did the numbers, and i realize that having something a little more serious is prolly what i want so long as i can trust them.

Im a horny ****er and i'd rather be banging a chick that i would not mind spending time and energy on vs. some skank at club or one night stand.

Those girls actually dont really make me that horny any more. Like the other night there was this one slut who is a good 9. I know her through friends of friends, and come to realize it, this girl and many others i'v talked to are not very content with themselves and have low self-esteem.

Why would i want to go sarging chicks and catch a bunch of diseases?? like seriously..... i consider that lowering my standards even if they are hot.

I'd rather be with someone i can **** the crap out of who appreciates me.

Of course things can go sour in a relationship, so im not gonna turn AFC and put up with it.

I think i'm just more comfortable with what i want.
 

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If your game is tight, finding a GF shouldn't be a problem. But yeah, not to sound bitter as some guy put it, at our age most females are slvts, plain & simple. I'm not sure if things get better, but find a conservative GF you will have to keep rocking. And still, even though i trust my GF 99% you just never really know. Don't be one of THOSE guys.
 

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i know...... it sucks how society has deemed things these days.

they make it sound ok to have an open relationship and its ok for girls to cheat beacause "all guys cheat" and blah blah.

The way i look at it, i dont want to put my ****, or my face where some dude as recently gizzed in. this does not matter if she is my girl or not.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Some guy telling me I am lieing. There is nothing to lie about. I gain nothing from lieing. Maybe to you its a lie because it seems so hard?

Anyway ill keep looking but at the moment can't find that money good prospects.
 

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LegendBoy said:
Some guy telling me I am lieing. There is nothing to lie about. I gain nothing from lieing. Maybe to you its a lie because it seems so hard?

Anyway ill keep looking but at the moment can't find that money good prospects.
Even if you're telling the truth its such an insecure-sounding post.

You could type, "I get with a lot of women" and then actually ask a valid question, and have a bit of class about you, but instead you type something along the lines of, "I wanked off 4 times and got 2 headjobs from chix (lol at chix) LOL. Anyone feel the same?"....I mean, what was the real point of this post? Ask yourself that. Seriously, grow up.

Lieing? Money good prospects? You should focus on your education rather than chix, you have a very poor grasp of grammar and spelling.
 

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I never said ALL women are sluts. Lust I am talking to you. I said it's like finding a needle in a hay stack and it is.

But, the problem with MOST women today, is that they think if a guy can get around alot, then they can too, and they think that guys will still want to be in a relationship with them. But, we really don't want to have a relationship with a girl that has been fvcked by a whole bunch of other guys that we know. They will constantly be like, "OMG, you are going out with her? I go way back with her. I could tell you some stories about her from back in the day."

We want to be the ones to teach her most things sexually. We don't want them having all that extra baggage from the past. And, if they were once a slut, and you get in a LTR with them, the chances are high they she will go back to her slutty ways and cheat.

With that said, I also have read books where it says that females in nature and even humans are always constantly trying to find the most healthy, strongest male to have offspring with and when she gets pregnant, she goes and looks for a provider to raise the child.

I also read that pre-*** has spermicide in it to kill away other male's sperm, and that a male's penis is shaped to scoop out other sperm from the vagina, and that a male trusts harder and deeper when he feels like another penis has been in the vagina recently.
 
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