"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I want a car

Fly By Night

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I know people my age who have their own cars and I can't even imagine how they got around 15k to pay for it... Some say their parents helped them and some of them actually paid for it themselves. But I am a broke college kid who is looking to make money out of my own work. I've been applying for jobs but they are minimum wage so who knows how long it will take me.

How did you guys get the money to buy the car you own?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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$15,000 would be way too nice of a car for me. $1,500 is more my style; that's about what I paid for the truck I drive now, and it's actually much nicer than what I drove in high school. I refuse to ever make a car payment. Get a motorcycle if you care about looking cool; what matters is that you pay cash and avoid payments.
 

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Good post Bible.

I actually sold my car. Don't have a car at the moment. If in the future I need one, I'll pick up something cheap with good gas mileage. Something like a Geo Metro, or Geo Tracker. A decent one could be found for less that 2 K.

You don't need a lot of money to buy a car. They are not good investments, but if you need one, get something you can afford.
 

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15k is a pre owned vehicle from a dealer. They are all on car loans making payements every month. There is no point in doing that.

For around 5k you could buy a nice car. Mustang GT. Contour SVT. Taurus SHO.

For 15k brother, you could buy a BMW 8 series!!!! That's a super car.

You not saying where you live. Where? We could pick you worthy choices.
 

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Before buying a car, think about the further money that you'll need for gas and maintenance.
I know that owning a car is a status thing in the US, but wouldn't you rather use the money for going out or even to travel? These are things that expand your mind, make you more social and more interesting. All of these are way more important than owning a car.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ChalengeGuyFan said:
Before buying a car, think about the further money that you'll need for gas and maintenance.
I know that owning a car is a status thing in the US, but wouldn't you rather use the money for going out or even to travel? These are things that expand your mind, make you more social and more interesting. All of these are way more important than owning a car.
Well I would like a car to be able to travel out to places out of walking distance and be able to go places without asking for rides. Plus, I always wanted my own car. :)

backseatjuan said:
15k is a pre owned vehicle from a dealer. They are all on car loans making payements every month. There is no point in doing that.

For around 5k you could buy a nice car. Mustang GT. Contour SVT. Taurus SHO.

For 15k brother, you could buy a BMW 8 series!!!! That's a super car.

You not saying where you live. Where? We could pick you worthy choices.
Ah, ok. My parents always buy cars from the dealership because its being sold from those business suit guys and they're more "trustworthy". I should start buying from other people if I want to actually afford it. **** that loan with interest bs. And I live around the Chicagoland area.
 

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Man, I want a car.

I don't care what anyone says. Those chargers are one of the nicest looking vehicles I've seen. Especially the multi colored ones with chrome wheels or colored wheels.

I can't even lie. I see ten of these every day though in Atlanta. But they are still pretty as hell.
 

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duh, get on craig's list and look at all the sub $1000 cars, dude. Get over yourself and your fancy dreams. Save and invest your money and then, once you do have enough to buy one, see if you still want to waste it on a losing bet like a car. There is no life without a set of wheels, but it does not need to be a fancy set of wheels. The money wasted on interest, full coverage insurance, taking it to a dealer for maintenance, etc, make having a nicer car a BIG waste of money. Learn to do a lot of the work yourself, and for SURE, give $10 each to some local AutoZone guys (several of them, in different stores) for REAL references to a good, local mechanic, who does work in his own garage, at fair prices.
 
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