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I wanna tell this girl I like her, but she has a boyfriend.

Dragon Angel X2

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Well I actually started liking her about a week ago. We were at a friends house working on our final in history (all last week) and we talked a lot and I have feelings for her now, but she has a boyfriend. I really wanna tell her, but I don't know how or if I should or not. We have a lot in common to and she seemed to talk to me and ask my advice more then anyone else in the group. Help me please.
 

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Jesus, what's up with your kids nowadays and professing your love everywhere? Where do you think that's gonna bring you, you already know she has a boyfriend and she will not do the same.

The best thing for you to do is to treat her like she doesn't have a boyfriend. Act the way you'd normally act, but looking at your post, it doesn't seem that well off either.

Get her number, get her on a date, have fun with her, if all goes will, move in for a kiss. If none of that works out, well guy, she wasn't going to end up with you anyways.

But to tell her you like her is like handing over you nuts in a bag for her to do anything she wants with. You're already desperate because you barely met this girl and you already "like" her. The most she should get from you is a little interest since you barely know her and the best you can do is "she seemed to talk to me more than anyone else in the group."

The help you need won't be easy. You have to change your whole person in order to improve your life for the better. But as a start, don't be so desperate and head-over-heels for a girl you barely know. You could live without her. Just chill off and treat her like any other girl if you really want to move on in there. If she's loyal to her boyfriend, which she probably is, it isn't going to work out. But it's better than just giving her something she may or may not want.
 

LikRetsam

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Originally posted by NRM
Get her number, get her on a date, have fun with her, if all goes will, move in for a kiss.
The only thing he'll get for asking her on a date is his ass kicked.

My friend, you are what we call desperate. Top right corner of the screen, DJ bible. Have some fun with it.
 

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From my experience, a lot of girls DO want dudes (esp AFCs) to profess their love to them. It makes them feel special, like in a romance movie.

But really, you've gone off the deep end. My advice: force yourself to be celibate. Don't get comfy with any girl, but instead get working on the various things in the Bible (approaching, c&f, the works). You didn't say it in your post, but from what I gather, you don't have the slightest clue what you're doing.
 

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I'm sort of in the same position as you. I've liked her before I discovered this site so I made the mistake of really liking her and she already has a boyfriend. They've been going out for a year and a half so it was a really stupid decision of mine. I should just forget about her but it's really hard. To make it worse is that she's moving soon and her boyfriend would probably get very pissed if I asked her out on a date and I'm sure she'd say no since she's not single. She seems interested in me though. I just have to forget about her and you should do the same unless you want to wait their relationship out.
 

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Originally posted by Flabbergasped?
From my experience, a lot of girls DO want dudes (esp AFCs) to profess their love to them. It makes them feel special, like in a romance movie.
never tell any woman you love her unless shes your wife. You will only regret it in the future.
 
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