"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I wanna make A dollar out of 15 cents

Plain & Simple

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Man lately my mind has been on money, im about to start going to college in like 2 weeks and once i graduate in 2 yrs ill be making around 55 thousand a yr if i find a job on my field.

But for now im working at a kitchen, making 6.15 an hour, for the month i dont make that much money, depending on the hour i get, and now that ima start college itll be less hrs, but i gotta pay car insurence, then phone bill, the gas for the month, bottled water for the house and make sure that my bellys full plus my play money, so i make it but i would like to find someway to make money outta money.

Like starting a business or selling something or a stock or something but whats the best way of making some money out of little money?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Skel

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if we knew the answer to that we would all be rich

YOu can start off by finding a better paying job. Bar tending can be well worthwhile although insane if you are trying to go to college with the hours you have to work.
 

cave dweller

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a point.....

Hey,

A bartender makes a decent wage, plus tips.......

Also, buy 'junk' at yard sales this weekend and sell it for a little profit at a flea market next weekend.

You could also find a partner (with some spare cash) to help you buy sh1t.

Also, buy a couple of paint brushes, rollers and paint houses and fences for cash........(most people hate to paint)--contact a firm that rents houses...

cave dweller
 
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