"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"I wanna fvck you"

pvf94

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girl ive been hangin with alot and making out with every day says that to me randomly on the phone....after a bit she says just kidding...

but before that she said "you have like a power over me whenever you leave I just wanna hold you and cuddle with you and love on you and kiss you...and I miss you"


hahah wtf? she can't be kidding when the other part is sincere.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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she's dtf.. wtf are you waiting for.
 

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pvf94 said:
girl ive been hangin with alot and making out with every day says that to me randomly on the phone....after a bit she says just kidding...

but before that she said "you have like a power over me whenever you leave I just wanna hold you and cuddle with you and love on you and kiss you...and I miss you"


hahah wtf? she can't be kidding when the other part is sincere.
She is playing hard to get by using push pull on you. That's a sign of disrespect.

Wait a couple of months and then contact her again.

lol, no seriously dude. If you don't fvck her I will! WTF ARE U WAITING FOR!!!!!
 

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ChrizZ said:
She is playing hard to get by using push pull on you. That's a sign of disrespect.

Wait a couple of months and then contact her again.

lol, no seriously dude. If you don't fvck her I will! WTF ARE U WAITING FOR!!!!!

haha i just now saw that part you wrote in white.
 

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I dunno, shes just not being totally straight forward...she said "i wanna fvck you" and I said "yikes" to get her goin and shes like you better be kidding I told her I was and she said i was just kidding....what if i wasnt...lmao

she wants the meat then eh?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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when your making out with her, just keep escalating it to the next level. Push pull. get her hot and stop for a minute. when you are doing it right, you wont be having sex with her. She will be raping you.
 

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im able to get into that passionate making out stage, but I havent ventured further then hands on ass/boobs/lower stomach .........I should go for the vag eh? Not like shell get mad ill just play it cool if she is bothered by it.
 

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dont just try and jam your hands down there. work closer and closer to the zone. outside of the pants first. first contact should just be a brush of the jeans across the top of the vag. make out with her and make it hotter and hotter, then pull away for a minute. next round go further, unbutton the top of her jeans with 1 hand and then put your hands back up near her face while you keep making out with her. If she buttons it back up, thats a sign she doesnt want to go much further. If she buttons it back up, you are going to have to retreat for awhile then possibly try again later. If she leaves it, you are golden to move on. Next get things hotter and hotter, then pull away. Next around go for the zipper. unbuttoned unzipped pants, then rub the insides of her thighs. You get my point man. Just 1 step at a time. Take things really slow. Be sure she is responding positively. If she pulls away, has any negative body language, buttons the pants back up etc, shes not ready to go there yet. If she helps shed clothes, your in. good luck bro.
 

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Go for her man, the runway is clear. Don't hesitate thou, you hesitate you masturbate. That's all I have to say about that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ChrizZ said:
She is playing hard to get by using push pull on you. That's a sign of disrespect.

Wait a couple of months and then contact her again.

lol, no seriously dude. If you don't fvck her I will! WTF ARE U WAITING FOR!!!!!
nice lol i didnt even see the white color until he pointed it out.
 

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last night was alright, she was grabbin my d!ck and she was letting me touch the vag through the jeans.

I'll go another step tonight. I should probably quit being a b!tch and just boink her.
 

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jamescr73 said:
dont just try and jam your hands down there.
DAMM now you tell me and I thought women wanted us to be MANLY and rip their clothes off and fvck them like dirty hors.
 

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pvf94 said:
last night was alright, she was grabbin my d!ck and she was letting me touch the vag through the jeans.

I'll go another step tonight. I should probably quit being a b!tch and just boink her.
WTF? I would have already done it on the first date.
 

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pvf94 said:
last night was alright, she was grabbin my d!ck and she was letting me touch the vag through the jeans.

I'll go another step tonight. I should probably quit being a b!tch and just boink her.
Lol please man . Please next time she does that just stick it out and say SUCK IT BIATCH . Than put your fingers inside her pants and finger her :D . Thats what you have to do man . Dont be pvssy
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonGorgon said:
keep teasing her.... the longer the wait the better she will f you and the longer she will be your f toy there after.
That's what i'm thinking too...I think I actually got the card flipped on her now where I am the tease.
 
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