"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I wanna curse this b*tch out

Capt.America

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so I started talking to this chick off of okcupid and things were looking very good . We were talking on the phone and we were talking freaky and she opened up to me . She was sending me pics and displayee high interest by double texting me all the time while I ignored some of her texts . She wanted to meet up but on th days she could I had work. I was sure I was going to smash . We even set up date for Monday . Out of nowhere she texts me and says we should be friends and I asked why and she says that a guy came back in her life and feelings came back so yeah sorry.

What got me so mad is that She kept saying how she isn't talking to no one else and she isn't interested in no one else but all of a sudden a guy came back in ur life an all interest for me is gone all of a sudden? Wtf I hate these fickle hoez
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Man, she was just using you... She was using you as ego validation as she was obviously in a breakup with someone else. Think about it... You compliment her, make her feel better, I am sure she even told you about her ex boyfriends and how difficult it was and other BS when she "opened up" to you.
She does not actually like you like you think she did... Evidence is that she immediately went with her former squeeze, she was just using you to make herself feel better.
Forget about cursing her out, it will do nothing. Move on, and let that woman make the same mistake. She is insecure and weak. Be stronger than her, forget about her as weak women like her are meaningless.
 

zinc4

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so I started talking to this chick off of okcupid and things were looking very good . We were talking on the phone and we were talking freaky and she opened up to me . She was sending me pics and displayee high interest by double texting me all the time while I ignored some of her texts . She wanted to meet up but on th days she could I had work. I was sure I was going to smash . We even set up date for Monday . Out of nowhere she texts me and says we should be friends and I asked why and she says that a guy came back in her life and feelings came back so yeah sorry.

What got me so mad is that She kept saying how she isn't talking to no one else and she isn't interested in no one else but all of a sudden a guy came back in ur life an all interest for me is gone all of a sudden? Wtf I hate these fickle hoez
Hahaha....happens to me all the time with Okcupid and other online girls.

You'd be surprised how many are fresh on the rebound looking for backup validation options.

Don't stress it....it's routine for me. Rinse and repeat.
 
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