"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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smorgan

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To begin with for a little background info I'm a college student who goes to a small campus and plays a sport. I don't get alot of time to party.

Anyways, I'm going through a tough time and I know you guys can give me good sound advice.

I was seeing this girl for about a month. We hit it off from the first night we met. I invited her over a couple times and we made out and stuff but nothing more. This was stupid on my part when I look back on it. Time went on and she came over less and less until she stopped coming over at all. We still talked about everyday and it seemed like there was something still there.

Anyways, one friday night i saw her at a party on campus and she basically blew me off. I had enough at that point and didn't like the way things were going. So I called her up that sunday and told her that. I told her I was done. She asked if we could still be friends. I said no, because I didn't see her as a friend but more.

Now my problem is that I want her back. She was a nice girl and I really liked her. She was a lot of fun. She's just a little immature, only a freshman. I was too nice to her and let her get away with too much and thats why she acted that way. Because I let it happen. I wanna just start talking to her like we used too. I almost wanna say it's ok we can be friends, even though I know I can't do that.

I guess what I'm asking is is how do I get her back? Or should I just move on?

Thanks for the help.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bussey

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You ended it on your terms, she wanted to be friends as you mentioned. There is not really anything you can do.

I'd say toast her for now, if you want to make her jealous, show up places she will be with girls hanging off of you lol. She'll immediately try to win you back.

But otherwise, you'll find better girls guaranteed!
 

Cod3r

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I was seeing this girl for about a month. We hit it off from the first night we met. I invited her over a couple times and we made out and stuff but nothing more. This was stupid on my part when I look back on it. Time went on and she came over less and less until she stopped coming over at all.
I've seen this 1000's of times, when they offer the pvsssy take it or they will deem you 'pansy' and take back the offer and search for other people to pursue the prize in their pants. You my friend are dealing with a slvt and you are treating her like a good girl, don't confuse the two...

Next time you see her, grab her hand... pull her into a room and rape her mouth when she speaks, tell her to shutup and watch those legs open....

PS
I'm not advising raping her btw, i'm saying she's a slvt treat her as such


-Cod3r
 

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try meeting other women, and actually try. see if you still want to get back with her after meeting a few and going on some dates. sounds like you are obsessing because you have no one else to go to when it comes to women.
 

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Special and cod3r you two are absolutely right. So either I'm gonna do what Cod3r says and rape her mouth or I'm gonna do what special says and find another girl.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mrRuckus

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Move on. It was only a month. You have like 700 months left to live. Chump change. Get to living the other 699 without some stupid b1tch. You know only the couple of nice things about her that she let you see. You're just now starting to see the inner garbage that she initially hid from you.
 

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thanks

yo cod3r I just want to thank you man. I did just what you said. I ran into her and just started making out with her. didn't say nothin even though she was trying. Now I got her in the palm of my hand
 
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