I turned on the music--she asked: Do you sit here and listen to music all day?

[davelmn2003]

what kind of a question is that? It's as if she thinks I'm a loser by listening to music at my place all day long. I was listening to The Beatles, but hey, they're cool.

 

[davedave]

Music is life! Dont shy away from the fact that you enjoy it. Its part of my package, and should be of any well rounded guy.

The Beatles? She cant appreciate one of the most influential groups of modern (speaking relatively here) time?

Either she was PMSing and didnt realize her bad attitude or she's gonna get tossed to the side by you b/c you met someone at a show who loves music more than you.


Dont sweat it.



Give her a chance and if she doesnt come through.... "Next"

 

[drZaius09]

Originally posted by davelmn2003
It's as if she thinks I'm a loser by listening to... The Beatles

Sounds logical to me.

 

[One on One]

Originally posted by davelmn2003
what kind of a question is that? It's as if she thinks I'm a loser by listening to music at my place all day long. I was listening to The Beatles, but hey, they're cool.

It's not necessarily a bad thing that she said that. I was at a club one time and a girl I know said, "do you just stand around and drink?" She was just trying to let me know she wanted to dance with me. Later on, we ended up freak dancing. I don't know your relationship with this girl, but she probably just wanted to do something else, maybe make out?

 

[DIESEL]

Originally posted by davelmn2003
what kind of a question is that? It's as if she thinks I'm a loser by listening to music at my place all day long. I was listening to The Beatles, but hey, they're cool.

What the fukk do you care?

And if by chance you are fishing for a witty reply: try this. SILENCE.

Nothing is more effective than that. Pisses 'em off to no end!

D

 

[Microphone Fiend]

uh, yea, as a dj you shouldn't care of what people think, only their emotions

On an unrelated notes: HOW MANY F*CKIN DAVE'S ARE ON THIS SITE

 

[Slickster]

Her : "Is that all you do sit around your place and listen to music all day?"

You (all laughs + smiles): "Oh being critical of my music are you? And I thought I was going to be nice and not mention how silly you look in that shirt."


One for one. Even.

Don't let that crap bother you at all Dave. She's just messing with you and you should do it right back.

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

Next time a girl asks something stupid like that tell her "No I usually lay around here and **** girls all day."

 

[Helter Skelter]

Did someone say the Beatles? Reminds me of that song..............................Oh, you know the one......


..........................................Helter Skelter thats it!!! that's the song!!! Oh, I love that song, reminds me of me!!



Sorry, couldn't resist

 

[Player_Supreme]

I turned on the music--she asked: Do you sit here and listen to music all day?

...and I said...that's so I don't have to hear you babble on & on about insane benal useless garbage. Infact while you got ya mouth open why don't you put it to some good use...as I'm unzipping my fly.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Oh that was a "ho" test. I hope you passed it and put her back in her place

 

[Julian]

slickster thats a lame comeback.

The BEST comeback you can have in this situation is just turning the music up louder LOL. Now thats class.

 

[Slickster]

Originally posted by Julian
slickster thats a lame comeback.

The BEST comeback you can have in this situation is just turning the music up louder LOL. Now thats class.

Well Julian, maybe so. Especially if you get all defensive and act offended. But she needs to be put in her place as Player Supreme points out as well. If you can deliver it right, any neg-hit would do. Its all in the delivery.

My guess is that this chick is just having fun with Dave and he shouldn't sweat it at all. Just saying something mildly insulting and funny back to bust her balls is all he had to do.

If she's joking around with you then you should joke back. Its a form of flirting. Just turning the music up kills any of that. So does silence. It just makes her think that her playful teasing actually got to you. Lame.

So how does turning up the music demonstrate class?

 

[davelmn2003]

dave134, I hope you're wrong, because if you're right I'm going to hit myself on the head!!

the situation was: we finished dinner and I invited her to my place for a drink. When we were at my place, I turned the music on, poured ourselves some drinks and sat on my bed. That's when she asked that question...

Now in light of what you said, maybe she had wanted to make out (or even more!?) instead of sitting around and listening to music...

I've never thought of that...Too late now. It was over.

 

[One on One]

Originally posted by davelmn2003
dave134, I hope you're wrong, because if you're right I'm going to hit myself on the head!!

the situation was: we finished dinner and I invited her to my place for a drink. When we were at my place, I turned the music on, poured ourselves some drinks and sat on my bed. That's when she asked that question...

Now in light of what you said, maybe she had wanted to make out (or even more!?) instead of sitting around and listening to music...

I've never thought of that...Too late now. It was over.

Oh man, now I really do think she wanted to make out or something. Next time you hear a line like that, make sure to make a move. Chalk it up as experience.

 

[Victory]

Originally posted by Slickster

If she's joking around with you then you should joke back. Its a form of flirting. Just turning the music up kills any of that. [/B]

Her: Do you sit here and listen to music all day?

* Look right at her while you turn the music up blaringly loud *

You: WHAT?! I CAN'T HEAR YOU OVER THIS MUSIC!

 

[Slickster]

That works. Good one.

 

[SamePendo]

If you like to read algebra books and truly think of it as fun, its fun.
If she doesnt respect your likes, why be with her?
(SamePendo types this while hearing a loud scream saying ¨neeeeeeeext!¨)

 

[legolas]

Originally posted by davelmn2003
dave134, I hope you're wrong, because if you're right I'm going to hit myself on the head!!

the situation was: we finished dinner and I invited her to my place for a drink. When we were at my place, I turned the music on, poured ourselves some drinks and sat on my bed. That's when she asked that question...

Now in light of what you said, maybe she had wanted to make out (or even more!?) instead of sitting around and listening to music...

I've never thought of that...Too late now. It was over.

First of all The Beatles are not a goos choice for romantic music. I mean, I used to listen to them like it was them and nothing else, but I grew out of them. Next time put on some soft music like smooth jazz or soft rock.

You could take her question as anything you want, but never give a direct answer. If you don't want to reply like Sexy_Malibu suggested or like Slickster, you could say "Only when I'm bored"

Oh wait that wasn't supposed to be harsh. How 'bout:

Her: "You sit here and listen to music all day?"
You: "Yeah, when I'm not doing that other thing"
Her: "What other thing?"
You: "That fun thing. The one where I rip your clothes off and make you come over and over again... (pause)...to the conclusion that this was a good thing to do after all"

 

[Helter Skelter]

Originally posted by legolas
First of all The Beatles are not a goos choice for romantic music. I mean, I used to listen to them like it was them and nothing else, but I grew out of them. Next time put on some soft music like smooth jazz or soft rock.

The Beatles have lots of great romantic music back in the days of vinyl Capitol records put together a 2 album collection called LOVE SONGS. Go thru their CD's and you can find lots of great choices. Then make your own cd from songs.

Here there Everywhere, Girl, I will, I'll follow the Sun
to name but a few