"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I Tried This

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Whats up DJ's i'm new to this board but i just wanted to share with you'll something i tried today although i'll be the first to tell you it is kind of lame.
I go to College in NYC so i see this Fine chick dressed in typical 18 year old urban female gear...i'm 19 but i dress more professional but anyway i decided to try something different...I went up to her and looked deep in her eyes and said
ME- Excuse me i just saw you sitting here and i had to tell you that you have the most beautiful eyes....by the way my name is_________
Her(smiling)-my name is_______

After that i shake her hand pretending i'm going to kiss it and kiss my 2 fingers instead then touch her hand and tell her "sorry you gotta work for the lips" and then i walk away....so this chick runs up to me like "wait wait where are you going"...i'm like "i have business to attend to" then she says "but you didn't even ask for my number"....I told her "i have to go" and she says "it won't take so long(insert my name here)" so i take it and she says "your going to call right "so i said "i look forward to speaking with you(insert her name here)"

Like i said i know its kind of lame and may be alittle difficult to read but i just wanted to share this since it was pretty fun.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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very nice. just proves that confident guys are attractive to women. i've always been against issuing a compliment like that from the get go, but i've heard it work time after time. i might try it soon. keep up the good work.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The compliment was a little AFC, but you worked it like a DJ. A little lame, but it worked. And that what counts...

Confidence is the key here...
 
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Originally posted by Reto
The compliment was a little AFC, but you worked it like a DJ. A little lame, but it worked. And that what counts...

Confidence is the key here...
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I agree. Understand that she's only 18 so there's a better chance of something that seems AFC working. Hopefully CP will grow out of it with experience as he starts approaching more mature women. Overall, he played it pretty well.
 
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How many times you tryed that **** before a girl actually call you back?
 
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She was the first but it was only my first time trying.

Thank you all for the compliments.
 
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Why would you create all that drama and then walk away, without asking about her business? And she ran after you??
Why tell her she had to 'earn' a kiss on the hand when it was you who initiated the action.....and how can she earn such favor if you walk away from her without further discussion, let alone get a phone number??

Were you near an insane asylum when you attempted this?
Crazy chicks need loving too, I guess! :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is Udder BS. You can believe it or not, whatever motivates you to try harder.

But the reason I said its B.S. is because its a variation of a few other PU's threads started by someone , where the guy does the approach, walks away, and the girl chases him asking for his name and number.

Im sure if you did a seatch for "Hey! arent you going to ask for my number?"

you will get a few entries
 
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