"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I Tried This

ClassyplayerNYC

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Whats up DJ's i'm new to this board but i just wanted to share with you'll something i tried today although i'll be the first to tell you it is kind of lame.
I go to College in NYC so i see this Fine chick dressed in typical 18 year old urban female gear...i'm 19 but i dress more professional but anyway i decided to try something different...I went up to her and looked deep in her eyes and said
ME- Excuse me i just saw you sitting here and i had to tell you that you have the most beautiful eyes....by the way my name is_________
Her(smiling)-my name is_______

After that i shake her hand pretending i'm going to kiss it and kiss my 2 fingers instead then touch her hand and tell her "sorry you gotta work for the lips" and then i walk away....so this chick runs up to me like "wait wait where are you going"...i'm like "i have business to attend to" then she says "but you didn't even ask for my number"....I told her "i have to go" and she says "it won't take so long(insert my name here)" so i take it and she says "your going to call right "so i said "i look forward to speaking with you(insert her name here)"

Like i said i know its kind of lame and may be alittle difficult to read but i just wanted to share this since it was pretty fun.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Knicknack

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very nice. just proves that confident guys are attractive to women. i've always been against issuing a compliment like that from the get go, but i've heard it work time after time. i might try it soon. keep up the good work.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Reto

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The compliment was a little AFC, but you worked it like a DJ. A little lame, but it worked. And that what counts...

Confidence is the key here...
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Reto
The compliment was a little AFC, but you worked it like a DJ. A little lame, but it worked. And that what counts...

Confidence is the key here...
I agree. Understand that she's only 18 so there's a better chance of something that seems AFC working. Hopefully CP will grow out of it with experience as he starts approaching more mature women. Overall, he played it pretty well.
 

Trance

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How many times you tryed that **** before a girl actually call you back?
 

ClassyplayerNYC

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She was the first but it was only my first time trying.

Thank you all for the compliments.
 
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Why would you create all that drama and then walk away, without asking about her business? And she ran after you??
Why tell her she had to 'earn' a kiss on the hand when it was you who initiated the action.....and how can she earn such favor if you walk away from her without further discussion, let alone get a phone number??

Were you near an insane asylum when you attempted this?
Crazy chicks need loving too, I guess! :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ManOMan

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This is Udder BS. You can believe it or not, whatever motivates you to try harder.

But the reason I said its B.S. is because its a variation of a few other PU's threads started by someone , where the guy does the approach, walks away, and the girl chases him asking for his name and number.

Im sure if you did a seatch for "Hey! arent you going to ask for my number?"

you will get a few entries
 
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