I told myself no more "oneitis" and here I am!

[BGMan]

You're doing great

Originally posted by WestCoaster
As I said, I was not AFC around her and have not been AFC around her. I guarantee you that. It's more of an internal thing.

Well, then, if you didn't act AFC around her, then I think things are going boffo. Good job. You can vent all you want, just so long as she doesn't see it.

She was just letting you know that she's as popular as she thinks YOU are. Don't sweat it. You have a good job, and at least one woman to date, and are on the lookout for more. From what I gather, she had a fun time with you, and is trying to build up attraction over time.

Just keep doing what you have been doing, and when she gets anxious or jealous or concerned when you talk to other women in her presence, then you know that she wants you and it's only a matter of time.

BGMan

 

[WestCoaster]

Thanks BG -- I used to live in your town

Thanks for the advice. I got pretty worked up over this gal. I've never crumbled in front of her, it's the going home and dropping 'f' bombs at my place that pi$$es me off. I'm sure she thinks nothing is wrong. I've decided to fight fire with fire and start talking about some of the women I dated last year. It would also help things if I got the dating scene going here a bit more.

BG, you're from my old stomping grounds of Moscow, one of the worst places to date, even with two universities 8 miles apart. I didn't graduate from either, moved out of the area to go to school. WSU has the hotties, UI not so good, IMO.

Also, heavy guy to girl ratio has the women calling the shots. Going out to the bar scene on the Palouse is torture. The ladies are pretty cold, IMO, even when I was younger.