Heres the situation:
Was dating her for almost a year (long time for me). Broke up with her about a month ago. We kind of cut off communication with each other I changed my number and everything.
Anyways she calls my bros phone at 3 am about a week ago wanting to talk to me out of the blue basically (I talked to her maybe twice before that) cause her laptop got stolen from her. right now. Fast forward to yesterday I get a call from her after work shes still distraught about her laptop and basically her life in general.
Her: starts talking about how upset she is and her laptop
Me: "im up here waiting for my car to get fixed come pick me up."
Her: ok
she was hesitant at first cause she knows the subject about our relationship will be brought up. Well it was brought up and I said what I wanted too to her she got pissed starts crying but its only fair. she storms off and I say "I dont deserve that treatment Im there for you always despite what you have done to me ( which really isn't that bad but its kind of).
She calms down and everything the car place took to long and it was late so I called her and asked if I could stay with her caues I live far. mind you weve talked like 4 times in the last month. Im laying in bed with her not making any moves even though I wanted too. Then she comes over starts cuddling then she kind of initiated a kiss so we kissed a couple of times like real passionate ones. I think we were both comfortable with each other. Then she busts out after like 10 minutes of silence ( i was trying to sleep)
Her: "do you still love me?"
I don't know if it was smart but I said "yes" with a quickness and said I miss her which is totally true. Then I ask her
Her: yes and I try not to admit it but I do miss you so much, (she starts crying) You are always there for me, now you are out of my life....... blah blah blah."
I was about to tell her that I wanted to be with her again. But I held back. I know that right now Im her emotional tampon but I know she has talked to her friends more about it than to me. Seeing her and sleeping with her made me feel like I wanted to get back together. Deep down inside i want her in my life still and I dont know if she feels the same she might I dont know. My plan is to not initiate any contact with her but if she calls ill talk to her and probably ask her to hang out but I wont call her first. Am I totally wrong in this situation in my thinking and plan of action.
Was dating her for almost a year (long time for me). Broke up with her about a month ago. We kind of cut off communication with each other I changed my number and everything.
Anyways she calls my bros phone at 3 am about a week ago wanting to talk to me out of the blue basically (I talked to her maybe twice before that) cause her laptop got stolen from her. right now. Fast forward to yesterday I get a call from her after work shes still distraught about her laptop and basically her life in general.
Her: starts talking about how upset she is and her laptop
Me: "im up here waiting for my car to get fixed come pick me up."
Her: ok
she was hesitant at first cause she knows the subject about our relationship will be brought up. Well it was brought up and I said what I wanted too to her she got pissed starts crying but its only fair. she storms off and I say "I dont deserve that treatment Im there for you always despite what you have done to me ( which really isn't that bad but its kind of).
She calms down and everything the car place took to long and it was late so I called her and asked if I could stay with her caues I live far. mind you weve talked like 4 times in the last month. Im laying in bed with her not making any moves even though I wanted too. Then she comes over starts cuddling then she kind of initiated a kiss so we kissed a couple of times like real passionate ones. I think we were both comfortable with each other. Then she busts out after like 10 minutes of silence ( i was trying to sleep)
Her: "do you still love me?"
I don't know if it was smart but I said "yes" with a quickness and said I miss her which is totally true. Then I ask her
Her: yes and I try not to admit it but I do miss you so much, (she starts crying) You are always there for me, now you are out of my life....... blah blah blah."
I was about to tell her that I wanted to be with her again. But I held back. I know that right now Im her emotional tampon but I know she has talked to her friends more about it than to me. Seeing her and sleeping with her made me feel like I wanted to get back together. Deep down inside i want her in my life still and I dont know if she feels the same she might I dont know. My plan is to not initiate any contact with her but if she calls ill talk to her and probably ask her to hang out but I wont call her first. Am I totally wrong in this situation in my thinking and plan of action.
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