"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i told her i liked her. how can i gain dominance back?

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Hello master djs,
I just registered today but i have been visiting this forum for two months now. I read the dj bible, and am working on reading the remaining books. I have learned a lot in these two months. Combining theory with practice has increased my learning rate.
I used all the tips in the dj bible on this one girl. I am a freshman in college btw, and this girl is a junior in high school. The girl really fell for me(kino works wonders!). Two days ago, i decided to tell her i liked her. We were at her high school, and i pulled her aside. I told her i wanted to be genuine with her, and then revealed to her that i liked her. I dont think my actions thru because i have come to the realization that thinking and overanalyzing **** kills the spontaneity girls desire. The moment those words left my mouth, i saw that i was giving away all the power i had worked to obtain. To make up for my loss, i decided to go in for the first kiss. Success!
We hugged for a long time afterwards and i heightened the physical contact and kissed her entire body.
I hope that my making the first move redeems my dumb comment about how i told her i liked her. But i want your wise advice masters. How can i gain control in the relationship again?
Things r going good, but i feel i lost some power because i revealed my emotions to her. ANY advice is appreciated. Thanks guys.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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loonik said:
...i heightened the physical contact and kissed her entire body

...How can i gain control in the relationship again?

...lost some power because i revealed my emotions to her. ANY advice is appreciated. Thanks guys.
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What relationship?
What entire body?:D

You revealed even more emotions by kissing her(entire body:D ) and you have not lost all your power, have you? I think to like someone is not really an emotion...
 
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I think your good mang.

There's nothing wrong with telling someone you like them. Now she knows. Now you don't have to show it in every little thing you do. A.k.a. Acting AFC. Spread it out and reward her with it, from time to time, for being a good girl to you.

You're young. Relax, stand tall and go with the flow
 
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alien: i dont really know wat kind of relationship we have. i guess we r friends with benefits. good times haha. i kissed her in her neck, her lips, cheek, shoulder, breast, hands, and inner thighs.
SweetDannyJ: thanks bruh. you are right. i should just go with the flow. I will not overanalyze!!
 
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OK.
I just thought i will read some more funny things... cause you wrote "We were at her high school, and i pulled her aside." after that ..."ive kissed her entire body" ...WTF?

Now i suppose you were at a more intimate place then.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There is nothing wrong with telling a girl you like her. The mistake many guys that come here make is that they think the moment they tell a woman they like her, their power is taken away from them. Don't worry about it. Now that you told her, if you notice a negative change in her behavior, just fire her. Besides, you're now in college and she is still in HS. College is the place for you to get tons of chicks free of charge. Read my journal and it may give you some suggestions.

I suggest you read the bible first.
 
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