"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I threw away an opportunity

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Demon Wolf

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I was leaving class and a really cute classmate, she was walking next to me and I did not say anything and just walked away. Now I have to wait till next week to talk to her. I feel crappy that I did not approach.
Social anxiety sucks. I had nothing at all to lose and a possible gain and I let it slip.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Acq

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really cute females walk past me all the time, at work, outside etc, but I dont consider them being opportunities.
 
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theunflushables

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^ Everything is an oppurtunity.
 
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mtlwlu

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just find someone else, chances are shes not the only "cute" girl around school.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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slickaz

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if shes a 7.5 and above every opportunity is an opportunity..
even if it means you get LJBFd..you can use her to network into her friends..

infact in the past ive always had better interactions with women that were friends with the girl i approached...i dunno why but it just worked that way 3 times in the past..
 
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