"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i thought i was in the freind zone but we made out

cablecow15

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Ok ive been messing with this girl for a while now and yesterday i had enough. i said to myself im tired of this i need to move on so i told her (she knew i was trying to get her) i think we should just be friends so the next day (today) i go over to her house to hang out and she comes to the door and lets me in and goes back to her bed i was kinda tired so i layed next to her somehow i ended up with my arms around her and her butt on my groin. the radio was on then my humps came on and she started grinding on me and rubing her hand on my inner thigh. She did that till the end of the song i decided that scince she was giving good signs and her neck was open i started sucking on her neck and biting playfully i noteced the hairs on her arm were standing up and her heart was racing she said something to me i raised my head to her up to hear her more clearly and BAM!! we kissed. i have no idea what i did to make that happen and i have no idea what to do next should i ask her out or act like nothing unusual happend and wait for another good chance to kiss her ..... please i would appreciate any opinions ive come to far to screw this one up
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bvbidd

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See.. this site makes you think about this stuff too often.

You were a guy with a **** in bed with her while she was horny, anything else really doesn't matter if your in that position. You did not DO anything. You were just both in an available position.

It does not get anymore simple than that.

You should of went all the way. Well your 15 mabye not.

Don't make a big deal about it mabye joke about it, and it'll happen again.
 

Kidd

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Actions speak louder than words. Always remember that.
 

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That's the way get in there. As for the post make out conversation just bring it up, with confidence though. you should joke about it a bit, don't get involved in a deep emotional conversation, keep it light and discuss what you want to do in the future, was it a random one off thing, do want to have a relationship with no strings attached eg fvck buddy or a full on one. but remember to keep the confidence up don't pvssy out when your discussing.
 

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Act as you normally would and go with the flow. I'm serious here, not trying to toss out generic tips. You will want to simply assess the situation next time you meet.

If you don't have an idea on how to approach your next meet, I suggest playfully acting like you're not sure you could ever be alone with her again because she might try to kiss you or... more.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Looks like if your lucky you got a friend with benfits lol, but seriously just go with it see what happens.
 

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Booty call.

This girl is nothing to you. You already moved on. Hang out with her every now and then, get some play. If you ask her out, that'd be a big jump from "I'm moving on" to "Date me". Don't go back on what you said, even if you like her. Play your game, get with other girls, she'll notice that she's got to compete for you and that you won't play her little games, and thats when things get interesting. Don't worry too much man, you'll come off as creepy.
 

cablecow15

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Skilla_Staz said:
Booty call.

This girl is nothing to you. You already moved on. Hang out with her every now and then, get some play. If you ask her out, that'd be a big jump from "I'm moving on" to "Date me". Don't go back on what you said, even if you like her. Play your game, get with other girls, she'll notice that she's got to compete for you and that you won't play her little games, and thats when things get interesting. Don't worry too much man, you'll come off as creepy.
omg man thank u because i just realized that theres other girls on my list and i think she doing the same crap cause i think shes waiting for this one kid to come back down to florida (we both know him and they knew eachother in like 7th grade
 
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