I thought girls were more mature in college...

[The Comeback Kid]

She sounds like a real ball buster. I bet you she would be an all or nothing in bed. Either freaking amazing or a dead lay.

I think your real life friend's analysis was down to a tee. Only thing I would add in his analysis is that she might or might not be attracted to you.

Believe it or not, push and pull works great with chicks like her. You pull her in by letting her "win" an argument. But do this very sparingly. Other times, you keep pushing her and point out flaws in her argument.

And you can tease her too whenever she tries to discredit you or speak out against your point. Tease the hell out of her.

I think she may be trying to test how tough your balls are. And whether or not you react to her. So far, you've done well. I'd say ante up and start teasing her.

In the end, just have fun at her expense. You've got absolutely nothing to lose anyway.

The scary thing was my friend (the one who talked to me about this) - right before I left for class today - said there's a chance she is attracted to me, but if he was putting $$ on it, she's just being a b!tch.

Well, we have our answer. Not much happened during class (no small groups today and the Prof sat in on our class). The only recurring themes were that I probably pissed her off by showcasing my history prowess (remember she's a bit pretentious) - I made an analysis about two contrasting songs from the same decade that the TA said was "right on the money." This didn't bait her into an argument, but towards the end of class, she tried to analyze the signifigance of a photo we were looking at and she basically just described it. I was ready to "playfully disagree" with whatever she was going to say, but her answer didn't really make sense.

However, I finally got down to business after class. Coincidentally we were walking out of class together, so I "broke the ice" by asking her what paper topic she was thinking of writing about (we got the topic choices a few days ago and talked about it in class a little). She was very enthusiastic about her answer...she looked the other way and very quietly said something that sounded like, "I don't know - I didn't really think about it yet." :trouble: She basically did the same thing when I laughed and said I couldn't hear a word of what she just mumbled. Seeing how HB 8.5 wasn't exactly making an effort to talk, I jumped ship and grabbed a nearby newspaper. We were leaving through the same door (I was a couple steps behind her at this point) and she didn't even hold the door open!

So that's really about it for this girl. She's not worth the time, especially if she's going to act like a pretentious b!tch. Maybe there's a reason she sits in her own little section during lecture and no one else tries talking to her in discussion (btw not that it's signifigant but HB 8.5 walked into seeing me talking to another girl in the class - this other girl was more outgoing about the paper topics lol).

 

[DarkShade]

All aboard the NEXT Train

Girls in college aren't that different, mostly inexperienced in most aspects of the real world.

 

[The Comeback Kid]

All aboard the NEXT Train

Girls in college aren't that different, mostly inexperienced in most aspects of the real world.

Has the NEXT train left the station yet? I figure it must have lol. Yeah this girl is definitely not worth it for me. I never developed feelings for her b/c I never knew her. It seems more likely that I just enjoy poking fun at her pretentious/"I think I'm better than you" demeanor and of course checking her out (she's still attractive...not stunning, but attractive ).

I hear you on your other point too DarkShade. However, it seems almost any other girl I say hi to will act in a positive matter and still keep up a conversation to an extent (or atleast say hi, how are you, keep up some smalltalk, etc). This chick just blew me out of the water right from the very start...something you would expect in high school.

 

[Social_disturbance]

She probably isn't interested, my friend. No worries, there are so many girls in college. Do yourself a favor and re-read DevanE's post and see what he did for a better idea of what you should have done.