“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I thought girls liked hot guys

Dhoulmagus

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I went to the bars these past few days. Ive had girls approach me and tell me im hot. Girls smile at me and guys are always like whats up man to me. If I order food, I usually get something free. Where's my bish
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Women are attracted to a mans "overall presents" (it's not as much about looks). If your good looking but deeply insecure they'll soon sniff it out and be off.
 

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You still have to make the move dude. If your a good looking guy, Women will approach you indirectly & sometimes directly but for the most part you have to make the move.

I'll give you an example of mine from just last night. I met up with one of my friends downtown at a bar we hadn't been to and we were just talkin sh!t for a bit while gettin some drinks and waiting for another friend to show up. I saw tons of girls looking at me but i played it cool as i wasnt in "pick up" mode just yet & just wanted to cool out with my friend. We stepped out to meet our friend by the train and on our way back, a woman came up to me and said i should go up to her group of friends, There were about 7 of them sitting all together. I went up to the hottest one in the group of course lol Blonde, Blue-ish green eyes and a nice big azz. Her smile was ear to ear lol.

I later found out her whole group of friends were talking about me since i walked in the door. They had a nickname for me, "sex toy" lol That whole group was on my jock. As the night got later and everyone dancing... Girls kept coming on to me from left and right, grabbin on my chest, arms & another chick came to me to tell me i had a beautiful face. i was caught up with the blonde so i didnt go after the other chicks.

Point of the story is you still have to make a move overall and put yourself in a position to talk and dance with them to hook up.
 

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Oh I love making topics while heavily intoxicated
 

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In2theGame said:
I later found out her whole group of friends were talking about me since i walked in the door. They had a nickname for me, "sex toy" lol That whole group was on my jock. As the night got later and everyone dancing... Girls kept coming on to me from left and right, grabbin on my chest, arms & another chick came to me to tell me i had a beautiful face. i was caught up with the blonde so i didnt go after the other chicks.

Point of the story is you still have to make a move overall and put yourself in a position to talk and dance with them to hook up.
While you may be technically right, when girls are grabbing you, calling you sex toy, and telling you that you have a beautiful face, how much of a green light do you need? They did practically everything but take your d!ck out and stick it into their vagina.
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
Ive had girls approach me and tell me im hot. Girls smile at me...

ok but what happens next? do you talk to them and ask them for numbers? or do you hang back and assume they will do all the work for you ?
 

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In2theGame said:
You still have to make the move dude. If your a good looking guy, Women will approach you indirectly & sometimes directly but for the most part you have to make the move.

I'll give you an example of mine from just last night. I met up with one of my friends downtown at a bar we hadn't been to and we were just talkin sh!t for a bit while gettin some drinks and waiting for another friend to show up. I saw tons of girls looking at me but i played it cool as i wasnt in "pick up" mode just yet & just wanted to cool out with my friend. We stepped out to meet our friend by the train and on our way back, a woman came up to me and said i should go up to her group of friends, There were about 7 of them sitting all together. I went up to the hottest one in the group of course lol Blonde, Blue-ish green eyes and a nice big azz. Her smile was ear to ear lol.

I later found out her whole group of friends were talking about me since i walked in the door. They had a nickname for me, "sex toy" lol That whole group was on my jock. As the night got later and everyone dancing... Girls kept coming on to me from left and right, grabbin on my chest, arms & another chick came to me to tell me i had a beautiful face. i was caught up with the blonde so i didnt go after the other chicks.

Point of the story is you still have to make a move overall and put yourself in a position to talk and dance with them to hook up.
do you mind telling us what you look like ? just curious.
 

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zekko said:
While you may be technically right, when girls are grabbing you, calling you sex toy, and telling you that you have a beautiful face, how much of a green light do you need? They did practically everything but take your d!ck out and stick it into their vagina.
I mean thats true but OP mentioned that girls come up to him to tell him he's hot and smile at him. From there he would have to make some kind of move to initiate conversation, Flirt etc.
 

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foreverAFC said:
do you mind telling us what you look like ? just curious.
As best as i can describe myself,.. Im 6 foot tall, Currently 180-185 pounds but pretty lean. I have a muscular build with good mass on my chest, shoulders, arms, back and legs while keeping my waist small. Not at my best right now because of all the drinking ive been doing last year and a half but when i was eating and drinking clean 100% i had a 28" waist with massive size and vey low body fat, plus i admit i was on Testosterone.

As far as my face, I have short jet back hair, very dark eye brows, hazel eyes, tanned light skin and i guess you can say good visual facial features. Defined jaw, straight nose and when i smile, my body fat is low enough to see my cheekbones. Honestly i think im a good looking guy but I have insecurities just like anyone else even though ive been complimented on my face several times.

Plus I have very clear clean skin that probably helps a lot. I have dark facial features like this guy, Especially the eyes and eyebrows http://i60.tinypic.com/34rht87.jpg
Dark features probably comes from the Arabic and Italian side of my family. My Father is mixed but Hispanic and was a track runner & swimmer so my body type genes is credited to him.
 

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Lol im 6 ft 1, 185, and with a muscular build but with drinking lol
 

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Have you read the dj bible or learned anything about game from the resources on this site or do you just come here to cry? Can't help you if you don't want to help yourself.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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