The Comeback Kid
Master Don Juan
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My freshmen year of college has been fun, and I am really looking forward to an even better sophomore year. In terms of girls, things have been alright, but nothing big happened. Getting numbers was not hard, and I was able to talk/flirt with girls just fine.
One thing I've always struggled with was getting a date. Did not land one for Sr. Prom (turns out I was sick anyway on the day of Prom, but I still could have made it if I had a date) and haven't had many overall. I'm not unattractive, I have a very good personality, w/e.
This school year, I think I asked out one HB to lunch, but she "says" she had work that day (apparently she may have been telling the truth, considering she knows I can just walk there and see if she was lying if I wanted to). I don't think I've even talked to her in a few days simply b/c I've been busy, so finding the groove in terms of easing into our good rapport may take a little thinking.
With just weeks remaining in the school year, I am just playing the rest of these few weeks out and eyeing next year - the rooming situation will be great and the atmosphere will be amazing (I picked our room for next year already). Well, quite the twist has come along...
...my friend, a diehard Red Sox fan, bought two tickets to a Red Sox game @ Fenway for next week (Wed). He can't make it, and offered them to me for $90 (he paid $100). I told him I could probably make this, and will be 100% certain within a few days.
Now is my time to get my date. :yes: I brought this up with a couple of my friends (who don't go to my school) and we agreed that I gotta shell out all the dough for this one (so she isn't paying). While my wallet will feel the effects of this, it will dramatically improve the chance a girl would like to go. I have one girl in mind (the one I mentioned before) and HOPEFULLY she would say yes. If she says no to a free ticket to a Red Sox game, :trouble: :trouble: :trouble: .
I could always take one of my other friends and have him pay 1/2, but despite the $$, I would definitely prefer a date. Of course I would like if she went to the game for reasons other than that it's free, but we'll see. I think her b-day is the day after the game..that'll be interesting.
Any advice on how to bring this one up? I haven't spoken with her in a few days, since she said she was working "all day/afternoon" last week. We know each other, but not really well (the girls I do know better all have bf's, so I got unlucky there
). Thoughts here are appreciated.
P.S. I thought my two free tix I won to the major aquarium (need to use them by December) was the hot ticket for me...apparently not. :crackup:
P.P.S. Same chick as described here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=122028 I feel I can be a little less fearful of a harsh rejection and more agressive here since I only have a couple weeks of class left.
One thing I've always struggled with was getting a date. Did not land one for Sr. Prom (turns out I was sick anyway on the day of Prom, but I still could have made it if I had a date) and haven't had many overall. I'm not unattractive, I have a very good personality, w/e.
This school year, I think I asked out one HB to lunch, but she "says" she had work that day (apparently she may have been telling the truth, considering she knows I can just walk there and see if she was lying if I wanted to). I don't think I've even talked to her in a few days simply b/c I've been busy, so finding the groove in terms of easing into our good rapport may take a little thinking.
With just weeks remaining in the school year, I am just playing the rest of these few weeks out and eyeing next year - the rooming situation will be great and the atmosphere will be amazing (I picked our room for next year already). Well, quite the twist has come along...
...my friend, a diehard Red Sox fan, bought two tickets to a Red Sox game @ Fenway for next week (Wed). He can't make it, and offered them to me for $90 (he paid $100). I told him I could probably make this, and will be 100% certain within a few days.
Now is my time to get my date. :yes: I brought this up with a couple of my friends (who don't go to my school) and we agreed that I gotta shell out all the dough for this one (so she isn't paying). While my wallet will feel the effects of this, it will dramatically improve the chance a girl would like to go. I have one girl in mind (the one I mentioned before) and HOPEFULLY she would say yes. If she says no to a free ticket to a Red Sox game, :trouble: :trouble: :trouble: .
I could always take one of my other friends and have him pay 1/2, but despite the $$, I would definitely prefer a date. Of course I would like if she went to the game for reasons other than that it's free, but we'll see. I think her b-day is the day after the game..that'll be interesting.
Any advice on how to bring this one up? I haven't spoken with her in a few days, since she said she was working "all day/afternoon" last week. We know each other, but not really well (the girls I do know better all have bf's, so I got unlucky there
). Thoughts here are appreciated. P.S. I thought my two free tix I won to the major aquarium (need to use them by December) was the hot ticket for me...apparently not. :crackup:
P.P.S. Same chick as described here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=122028 I feel I can be a little less fearful of a harsh rejection and more agressive here since I only have a couple weeks of class left.
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