"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think woman want it just as bad a men....

thedude4242

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has anyone ever thought this. I have text woman with a regular whats up message and get nothing back. then later on I will text them something that is or can be taken sexual and they text back and talk. if a woman is talking to a man she likes and he is not coming off sexual enough is it just like when us guys talk to a girls we want and she is not being sexual enough and we think the heck with here she isnt giving it up?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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They do ... but they can get it much easier any time any place from most men ... so its value is much lower to them. They dont even view it the same as we do. Its far from a focal point for them. They create challenge for them self by being picky and choosey and trying to play games ..
 

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so why do you think they will repsond to a sexual text or comment and not to a regular one?
 

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talking about sex before you fed her? could you please explain that?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thedude4242 said:
talking about sex before you fed her? could you please explain that?
Haha, I didn't get his abbreviation either. Thought it was some kind of DJ thing that I'd never heard of.

F'ed:

F*cked
Boned
Screwed
Porked
Dropped a load in
 

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ok, take her out to eat and spend money? I dont get that but whatever.
 

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DonGorgon said:
no dont do that ... it will take you much longer to F her... just tell her to come your house and kickit after 10 pm... if she comes high chance she wants to F..
Haha that's the sure way of knowing she wants to ef! You can narrow down your options and save a lot of wasted time this way!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kerpal said:
Women definitely do not want sex as much as men do. Not only should this be obvious to anyone who has ever walked outside, but if you need a scientific explanation, men create 40-60 times as much testosterone as women. Testosterone is the chemical that makes you want to have sex.

lol... ummmm.. the avergae woman wants and has more sex with mkore partners in her life time that the average man .. the difference is that she hides it and people never know what she is up to..lol
 
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