"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think what I miss most about my 20s

speakeasy

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was not having to hear about weddings almost every other day. Or people rushing to get married. Amongst single people(in their 30s) I know, esp the girls, it's almost become a big game of musical chairs where everyone is scared to death to be the last one standing.

Nothing wrong with getting married if that's what you're ready for, I just miss the days when I rarely heard about it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The last wedding I attended was actually when I was in my 20's.

The bride instead of throwing the garter she just walked over to me and hands it to me winking with a big smile and hugs me tight and whispers maybe this will help speed things up...

I always said why anyone would want to get marred....

Powerlifter
 

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I'm in my early 20's and it's all I hear about?! Granted I DJ a lot of weddings but besides that every week it seems another couple I know is getting engaged or married! Maybe in 20 years I'll stop hearing about it. To many people are getting married way to young around me
 

speakeasy

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mpimpin said:
I'm in my early 20's and it's all I hear about?! Granted I DJ a lot of weddings but besides that every week it seems another couple I know is getting engaged or married! Maybe in 20 years I'll stop hearing about it. To many people are getting married way to young around me
In 20 years you'll be hearing about a bunch of divorces and drama over alimony and child custody.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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speakeasy said:
In 20 years you'll be hearing about a bunch of divorces and drama over alimony and child custody.
Wait another 20 yrs and there won't be hardly any weddings. Then you get to start going to funerals instead. Time flies brothers. Don't waste a day.
 
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