I think we're more flexible in terms of relationships

[mackdaddy27]

I always heard that girls are the ones
are the who always 'need' to be in a relationship
even though they don't really like the guy, they
just need someone to validate their value or
at least dont like to feel the alone feeling more
than guys. But its always just 1 guy at any given time. They don't like to be 'free.'

What do you think about Guys in general? I think we're more flexible.

Maybe this is a question that has no real answer or just for discussion. I think all guys are different but some guys can be without a relationship for a long time and can have multiple women at the same time the very next day, or we need to be in a serial relationship all the time.

I tend to fall in the last 2 categories it just makes things more easier for logistical purposes when you have a regular , then you dont have to goto the bar every weekend just to get some tail.

 

[kingy]

Everybody always is wanting to be made to feel good about themselves.

A forum is typically just re-asserting your reality, i think this bla bla bla

Its an inatate human instinct to re-assert your reality all the time to make it "normal". When someone says good post, its cos their post fitted nicely in their reality. When you see people go off on one saying bla bla bla its because it didnt and they arent strong enough in them selves yet.

girls want the choice to be theirs if the guy sticks around, and they dont always want that. some girls can be single for ages and others need a relationship to feel loved. That would be the same with guys if they had the choice lol

it really just comes down to that persons level of self-esteem and whether its based on external stuff like another person or internal.

One thing if you get a girlfriend you must make sure she is not the reason you think u are cool. you might struggle to end the relationship otherwise.

 

[John888]

I think it's a known fact that woman want a partner for themselves, guys don't really care. I mean they want diversity. Or multiple partners.

 

[Maxtro]

Even though girls may always need to be with somebody they usually still win because they can usually get somebody 99% of the time (unless they are fat or very ugly.)

For guys, being free is very different from not having anybody. Guys still need to have some sex or girls in their lives to be happy. Without it a guy can be depressed.

Edit: I was pretty depressed at the time when I wrote this post.

 

[TizZle]

Even though girls may always need to be with somebody they usually still win because they can usually get somebody 99% of the time (unless they are fat or very ugly.).

They win because each woman has two boobs and that vastly outnumbers the total number of men in the world....

 

[Igetit!]

They win because each woman has two boobs and that vastly outnumbers the total number of men in the world....

They win because we men allow them to win through weakness/afcness.
There are so,SO many guys who instead of controlling their sexual desire,they let their desire control them. Just check out some of the threads currently here on the board:there's one where a guy was actually given advice to have sex with a girl whom he already knows has herpes. There's another one where a guy met a young lady who he's found out is a minor,and instead of telling him to move on,some of the advice was about how to sleep with her and not get caught. Other threads are about whether or not to sleep with a married woman. And all of these examples are of guys being weak and being control by their urge for sex. If guys are willing to risk jail,being confronted and possibly beaten by an angry husband,and contracting some disease all for a few moments of pleasure,then is it any wonder that women have the kind of power they do?

Is it any shock or surprise that women "win". And the thing is,it isn't them that defeats us,it's US. That's why women basically don't have to do anything to get things from men other than just existing.
Guys will compliment a woman,offer her things,made themselves available to do whatever she wants,etc. I even know one guy who told a girl that he was willing to be "hen-pecked" for her,which just means he was willing to be whipped/her butler if she'd marry him. And all of this not because of anything the woman has done,but because of the guy's desire for sex.

That's why this forum is a good thing to have. It'll teach you to be a man,and not some horny,hormone-driven,high school acting guy being used and abused by women simply because of you wanting sex.

 

[TizZle]

Igetit, I was simply semi-quoting a line from the movie "Role Models" when Sean William Scott was talking to Ronnie about boob watching. Definitely a must see movie. One of the funniest movies i've seen in a while.