I can't remember where I read this idea from, but if any of you find it (it might be from the bible) then feel free to post the link here. I took the basic idea and put my own spin on it, so here you go:
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Another thing to think about are your options. More options = you care less about rejection = more power.
Society has molded girls into being the ones sought after; they have the guys come up to bat one by one instead of going out after the guys themselves. Of course you'll get the random girl that actually goes up to guys and asks them out, but for the most part, most girls are stuck with the guys that come up to them. That's right, if no guys come up and ask them out, they have no options. If only a few jerk-offs come up and try to get with them, they have to get it when they can and go off with those *******s. Basically, their selection is limited to what is offered to them.
Now think about guys. We're molded to be the aggressor, to go after what we want. Instead of using this to our advantage, most guys get nervous and act like rejection from a girl is the worst thing in the world. So what do they do? They either never go up to the girl they want, or they go up and act like wimps, thus striking out with the girl. Then the cycle of doubt/shame and porn is repeated, with curses of the female gender thrown in for good measure. But really fellas, if one girl rejects you, what do you have to lose? There are plenty of other girls out there, that are just waiting for a guy to come ask them out. While that girl is stuck on her own until some other chump comes up to her, you are free to go seek whatever putang you wish. Your options are nigh limitless.
So let's recap.
Women = Options are limited to the guys that actually approach them
Men = Options are limited to the number of females..on the planet.
Who has more options? Who has more power? Do you know what it truly feels like to know for a fact that you can walk away from any ***** giving you crap and score some chick in the same week? How long do you think she will have to wait for some chump to appoach her? She'll either get stuck with an idiot or spend the next weeks or months waiting for another man to come up and sweep her off her feet. Practice makes perfect.
I'll leave you with two thoughts-
-It's not who you are that holds you back, it's who you think you're not.
-Do what you can now because tomorrow isn't promised today.
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Another thing to think about are your options. More options = you care less about rejection = more power.
Society has molded girls into being the ones sought after; they have the guys come up to bat one by one instead of going out after the guys themselves. Of course you'll get the random girl that actually goes up to guys and asks them out, but for the most part, most girls are stuck with the guys that come up to them. That's right, if no guys come up and ask them out, they have no options. If only a few jerk-offs come up and try to get with them, they have to get it when they can and go off with those *******s. Basically, their selection is limited to what is offered to them.
Now think about guys. We're molded to be the aggressor, to go after what we want. Instead of using this to our advantage, most guys get nervous and act like rejection from a girl is the worst thing in the world. So what do they do? They either never go up to the girl they want, or they go up and act like wimps, thus striking out with the girl. Then the cycle of doubt/shame and porn is repeated, with curses of the female gender thrown in for good measure. But really fellas, if one girl rejects you, what do you have to lose? There are plenty of other girls out there, that are just waiting for a guy to come ask them out. While that girl is stuck on her own until some other chump comes up to her, you are free to go seek whatever putang you wish. Your options are nigh limitless.
So let's recap.
Women = Options are limited to the guys that actually approach them
Men = Options are limited to the number of females..on the planet.
Who has more options? Who has more power? Do you know what it truly feels like to know for a fact that you can walk away from any ***** giving you crap and score some chick in the same week? How long do you think she will have to wait for some chump to appoach her? She'll either get stuck with an idiot or spend the next weeks or months waiting for another man to come up and sweep her off her feet. Practice makes perfect.
I'll leave you with two thoughts-
-It's not who you are that holds you back, it's who you think you're not.
-Do what you can now because tomorrow isn't promised today.