"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think this is smart- so i want to share with you

SamePendo

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Reloaded said:
Nobody cares. People like you only come here to play games and fool around, while other people are honestly trying to learn and improve. This board would be better off if you just left it.....NOW!

Yeah.. take that "alpha" stuff you learnt to real life, saying this stuff online make you look like a clown. At least by funny/witty.

Ticky: What, Powertrip, wanted to say, is, I think.. you are going around the action of actually asking her out, this is common with weak men, who try to take a spin on things rather than planting their feet and asking them flat out, saying, in a way "I'm the real deal, hurry or I'll leave you behind, woman!"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thanks.. obviousely, i am trying to learn some stuff

I just finished my week 1 and on my week2.

Here is my journal:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=959047

Thanks the ones who were providing valueable feedbacks.

To the one who were sending flames, all i can say is you are nothing but an A$$ hole.


SamePendo said:
Yeah.. take that "alpha" stuff you learnt to real life, saying this stuff online make you look like a clown. At least by funny/witty.

Ticky: What, Powertrip, wanted to say, is, I think.. you are going around the action of actually asking her out, this is common with weak men, who try to take a spin on things rather than planting their feet and asking them flat out, saying, in a way "I'm the real deal, hurry or I'll leave you behind, woman!"
 

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It's kinda hard to be supportive when there's not much to support though.
 
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