"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think this girl is bad for me?!

lifesfun

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Hey guys... I met this cute girl in crosscontry and shes a grade a head of me and I know she like me... I like her back in all but I just cant get away from her and talk to other people ... I usally talk to a lot of people ....why do I feel obligated to talk to her because she likes me.... I want her but I also want to talk to my other friends who are girls! How do you have both? How do you date girls casually? or at least set it up that way.. Im so confused:confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Heretic

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Give her the gift of missing you; if the conversation fades a little and you can't think of something to say, walk away and talk to someone else. It's simple, and increases attraction.

Interesting that I know that now, I don't think I'm quite at the level to hand out advice, but this seems to be a pretty simple question.
 

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We actually clic too well and that is why I am spending to much time with her instead of being social like I usually am, so running out of things to say is not a problem or even a option really... but thanks for the advice you gave me a idea that I should make her come into my world and talk to my friends, I should not be going into hers but understand hers... This problem has happended to me many times, and I know where it goes; and thats her coming on to me to the point thats its creepy and unnatural .... thanks for advice cause it gave me an good idea :)
 
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