That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It is science. We are never as cool to others as we think we are. The more you chit chat on the phone, the more likely you are of talking her out of liking you. All we have to do is shut up, make dates, and escalate.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
1) You can still have success while doing something wrong
You're going to do what you want, but you're making a lot of mistakes. No one on here is surprised at this. She didn't kiss you because you talked her out of kissing you. She's not interested. Move on, read the DJ Bible, and stop doing the same thing expecting different results.Well, my last couple dates when well. Ended em' both with a kiss close and dated the one for a bit (made a topic on her--the chick that only wanted anal). This one, however, wasn't as good.
Convo was pretty good, she was flipping her hair, teasing me, and doing other nervous bullsh!t girls usually do when they're into you, but I didn't get the kiss at the end. I f*cked up because I got insecure after being rejected though, and texted her an inside joke: "You know, I don't ACTUALLY have herpes." To which she responded: "And you know all girls don't ACTUALLY kiss on the first date." Couldn't help but have a chuckle at that good ol' line. Even worse, after I told her I was only giving her a hard time, that I had fun and to drive safe, she then said "thanks again for drinks"
Oh God. Shut the f*ck up faggot. I've read the "DJ Bible" and have been on and off this site for 6+ years. I posted this as an update for educational purposes. Not everyone is going to like you, and not every date is going to play out exactly how you want it.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Aw, is your ego so bruised you have to resort to insults?
You aren't applying anything from the DJ Bible. We are going off information you posted.
Work on your emotional self-control and your maturity. You will have more luck with women.