"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think that this is pretty accurate on how to tell attraction.

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It's been my experience with at least 3 of em. Women (and men) will compare me to Kevin Bacon, Christian Bale, and whoever they were "attracted to" growing up or currently so I got compared to Glen Danzig a couple of years ago, um, I guess but I'm not big (though taller) like that guy and my hair is not black and I guess I can be melancholy like idk. She loved underground music and was a professional saxophonist in a concert. She was obsessed but she was a single mom so of course, I ditched her as hard and best I could and she had to leave her work cause they all knew I rejected her and when women make their feelings known, ESPECIALLY among co-workers, they're taking a big risk - the snapping like turtles, the snipping, the gossiping, and back-bitting ("he doesn't like you..loser!"). Then of course her co-workers take a crack at me to see if I like THEM. Of course not, heh, they had kids and one of was married for Christ's sakes too. Low end women.

But anyway, the getting close to you, touching you tenderly, smiling, laughing at all your utterances. It's important to know the top 5.

 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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