"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think someone stole my bankcard info

Raikojo17

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I recently checked out my bank balances trying to pay off my credit card

I was keeping track of everything i bought, so i new how much i had in there

But when i looked, i had less than what i thought. might be a miscalculation, but i noticed a strange site Epoch.com, where a payment was made for 34 dollars

I've never heard of this site in my life. i was wondering if it was a banksite for them or something, but why would they randomly take 34 dollars out of my account? I haven't bought anything for 34 dollars

and now i can't pay my bill!

I have reason to suspect, because some stole my credit card info as well and used it for escort sites and such.

I'm scared. I'm going up there tomorrow to talk to them, but would it do any good?

I doubt they'd give me any money back if it was false.

anyone else have this happen to them?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My roommate had about a $33 something charge occuring every month or every few months. It was a membership charge for a porn site! The bank was able to track down the guy's name that was using it and handled things
 

taiyuu_otoko

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I've had people get my info rip me off. The tricky part is to find the address of the place that charged your card. If you send them a registered letter saying you didn't buy whatever it was, and they don't refund the money, then your bank should reimburse you.

You need to find an address, and send a registered letter demanding your money back. That should do the trick.

Just document everything. get a hold of epoch, call them if you can and demand a reciept, do whatever you can and document everything.

Some of those sites purposely make it harder than fukk to send them a hard letter.
 

mpimpin

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Immediately go to your bank and talk to them. They might reimburse you automatically and cancel your card. At least get the card canceled and get a new one. ASAP
 

Raikojo17

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I found out what it was. apparently it was from when i let my brother make a "trial" subscription to a site. I guess that bastards automatically renewed the bill every month after the trial. very sneaky. I guess they call it convenience, lol more like pain in the ass to get rid of

I called the billers and they agreed to cancel it and refund my money that they took.

I'm glad that's over. lesson learned, never pay for some site you don't know, or let anyone else use your card.

thanks guys :up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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horaholic

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That shyt will definately get ya.
 
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