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i think she is confused about her actions

flexxx

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i first saw her in college she stared at me while we were crossing the hall9this was the first time i see her ever),she locked her eyes on me till we crossed each other then when arrived to be at my side she stared also then when she passed past me she tured her head and stared one more time for 3 sec.obviously i did the same thing.
since then each day we stared at each other untill 5 days later when i got the guts to approach her(by the way the is the hottest girl in college),she was walkingwith her girlfriends in the yard i touched her hand very softly to stop her,she stopped,i said hi and she said hi,itold her that i i have noticed her since last week and we see each other a 1000 times a day without talking and that isnt a nice thing so we have to get to know each other so that next time we will say hi.she smiled then we begin to chat for a few minutes.
a few days later when i saw her again i chatted with her for a few minutes ,the same thing happened for the next 9 days(i tried to focus all the chatting on her ) ,staring,smiling chatting a little,but on the 9th day(by the way i see her eod because she only have courses eod)we was talking for a few seconds and then suddenly she turned to my friend and ignored me completely for 10 mn i felt like a stupid i tried to insert myself into the conversation but it didnt work, she was laughing and seemed so intrested in what he says although the conversation was so silly.

so i gatherd my thoughts and i remembered that i am a DJ i turned to her best friend the ugly one and we start talking for the next 20 mn without even looking at her as if she didnt exist ,but i felt that she is glancing our way,she then asked my friend to join her in the the cafeteria and he accepted they disappeared for a few mn to get a sandwish and they returned ,i told u i didnt even turned my head to her way to see what is happening,then i left for a few mn and i returned my friend told me that she and her 2 girlfriends dont have a car and they need a lift so we have to insert ourselves in his tiny car(mine was at home)i told him in front of her that we cant fit in his car it is too small so i better go alone with an another friend so that they will fit in the car so that he can drives them home,i said goodbye without looking at her but i looked to her friends and my friend when i said the goodbye and left walking tall.
he told me tater that she is a muslim girl and she wants to have a muslim bf,she asked him to introduce her to some muslim guys,he asked her why she said her parents won't let date if not.but all the ride she kept asking him why i left alone,why i didnt say bye to her,am i angry of her,he said no,she asked him am i angry because she didnt talk to me,she told him she didnt because i was talking to her girlfriend and she didnt want to interrupt us.but the fact is that i talked to her friend because she ignored me.
she told him too that she has a bf but who isnt muslim but nothing is serious,he is her age(18),i am 24 i am in my last year of telecom engeneering.she is a freshman of business.
i will see her tomorrow WHAT SHOULD BE MY NEXT MOVE?
I REALLY LIKE LIKE THIS GIRL MY HEART BEATS WHEN I SEE HER.
 
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The TallOne

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I would suggest reading the DJ Bible.

Along with paragraphing.. people who dont' paragraph makes it very hard for readers to understand what they are trying to convey.
 

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Originally posted by flexxx
any thoughts?????????
Here's a thought: NEXT.

And don't get all bent out of shape when one chick displays rude behavior. Just chalk it up under her name and keep playing. I think the whole Muslim thing's got you f**ked, but if you see her again keep running your game just for the hell of it. Just don't expect anything to happen. And DON'T chase after her. She's already shown with her rudeness that she doesn't deserve it.
 

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I agree with squirrels

So let me get this stright,, you call yourself a Don Juan because you decided NOW ITS TIME TO ACT LIKE ONE?? what is this a part time job?

You can't call yourself a Don Juan when you first as you put:

"we stared at each other untill 5 days later when i got the guts to approach her" and then "i saw her again i chatted with her for a few minutes ,the same thing happened for the next 9 days"

what were you waiting for? I think you lost this girl when you waited so long, and she noticed you liked her but didn't do anything about it.

If you were already intrested you should have approached right away. Guess what? youv got Oneitis -"by the way the is the hottest girl in college" "I REALLY LIKE LIKE THIS GIRL MY HEART BEATS WHEN I SEE HER"

With your way of thinking, its over before it began. Read the DJBible in the meantime and concetrate on your school work, hobbies and other women. FORGET THIS ONE.
 

flexxx

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yes i have seen her for 9 days but every other day which means 4 times and each time our mutual free time is barely 30 mn.
i am not just chatting with her but i was actually getting knowing her a little more before i ask her out that's it.to know the things she likes to do in general and dont forget that all her friends were surrounding her all the time and all the guys try to hit on her in this 30 mn.
 

dietzcoi

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Listen, if she is MUSLIM, WTF are you doing?

Looking for diamonds in the desert?

THINK!

You are wasting your time. Don't try to turn turnips into cherries!

Muslims have real, real issues.

I have known Turkish girls here in Germany.....Real issues

Dietzcoi
 

flexxx

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man i am lebanese man and so is she ,here in lebanon we have lots of muslims so we cohabit the same country i have friends that have dated muslim girls with no problem and this girl i think she has no problem but the real problem is her parents.
so i think if i hit on her right away,the word of her parents is a lot more important than her attraction to me if there is attraction in the first place.but if she gets to know me better maybe she will be a lot more intrested and then we can judge.
but now i dont think she will risk it for some dude she barely knows...
 
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