“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think online dating is my only chance to meet someone I like

bigdave17

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women I meet in real life are always

too young
too old
have kids
smoke
drink too much
are stupid
work bullsh*t jobs
can't have an intelligent conversation
have no hobbies
not very classy
etc.... etc... etc... etc....


You guys all talk about approaching women in real life as if it's super easy to find someone very high quality. 99% of women you come across in real life will be nothing decent in terms of the overall package.

at least with online dating, you can filter out the bullsh*t
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

TheMonkeyKing

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If you're applying your own expectations prospectively, before you've even met anyone, you'll more than likely be disappointed, one way or another.

Enjoy your life, and you never know who you might meet. You're being too needy at the moment.
 

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All of those things you have listed about women in real life, I have found thru OLD as well. About the only thing you can filter for is age, and even then they lie about that.

There is no promise land. None of it works very well.
 

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All of those things you have listed about women in real life, I have found thru OLD as well. About the only thing you can filter for is age, and even then they lie about that.

There is no promise land. None of it works very well.
OLD is flooded with fat single moms who are getting 200 messages per day. Have fun with that.

If you do have to use OLD, use Bumble.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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OP your a wind up merchant, and a virgin the woman you are looking for would crush your mere soul , you would be following them round like a little puppy within days
 

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women I meet in real life are always

too young
too old
have kids
smoke
drink too much
are stupid
work bullsh*t jobs
can't have an intelligent conversation
have no hobbies
not very classy
etc.... etc... etc... etc....


You guys all talk about approaching women in real life as if it's super easy to find someone very high quality. 99% of women you come across in real life will be nothing decent in terms of the overall package.

at least with online dating, you can filter out the bullsh*t
Real life dating is a better option.
 

guru1000

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OLD is like taking candy from a baby.

It should be a crime to be this easy.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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All of those things you have listed about women in real life, I have found thru OLD as well. About the only thing you can filter for is age, and even then they lie about that.

There is no promise land. None of it works very well.
OLD is just a cross section of general society at large,where do some of these people think OLD women come from ? Mars ? they are the same damn women I found,as a matter of fact when cold approaching you have no fvckin info at all zero nilch and nada.
 

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Mate I m Joe Average and I m old I ve had a constant supply of puss and some LTRs from OLD. Learn and adjust your tactics.

If you dedicated 2 days not all at once to making different profiles and trying different things u d learn so much.
 

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OLD is just a cross section of general society at large,where do some of these people think OLD women come from ? Mars ? they are the same damn women I found,as a matter of fact when cold approaching you have no fvckin info at all zero nilch and nada.
no they are not. semi-normal woman registers on tinder/badoo and they change their attitude completely. before they couldnt even get a boyfriend and now they have 100s of messages daily. it has huge impact on their mind and they quickly start scanning for the best offer.
 

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Mate I m Joe Average and I m old I ve had a constant supply of puss and some LTRs from OLD. Learn and adjust your tactics.

If you dedicated 2 days not all at once to making different profiles and trying different things u d learn so much.
yes but are you getting anything decent from online dating? talking mid 20s, cute, nice fit body, intelligent, classy, no kids decent job

if you're getting single moms and chubby women, I can get that in real life
 

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no they are not. semi-normal woman registers on tinder/badoo and they change their attitude completely. before they couldnt even get a boyfriend and now they have 100s of messages daily. it has huge impact on their mind and they quickly start scanning for the best offer.
HAHA I can tell you don't cold approach.The hot women I approach have HUGE heads.
 

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OLD is flooded with fat single moms who are getting 200 messages per day. Have fun with that.

If you do have to use OLD, use Bumble.[/QUUn
Unfortunately, women on Bumble are as flaky as fack. They just have more professional looking photos. I have three dates set up for this week with hb 7s, not to sound like a douche but I am probably out of their league and these bishes still gave me a hard time when it came to setting up dates. I have another date with an hb 8 the following weekend and she is always blowing up my phone. I have always been interested in finding out why a woman who is an hb 8 contacts me a few times per day and looks forward to our date while hb6 's play hard to get.
 

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Unfortunately, women on Bumble are as flaky as fack. They just have more professional looking photos. I have three dates set up for this week with hb 7s, not to sound like a douche but I am probably out of their league and these bishes still gave me a hard time when it came to setting up dates. I have another date with an hb 8 the following weekend and she is always blowing up my phone. I have always been interested in finding out why a woman who is an hb 8 contacts me a few times per day and looks forward to our date while hb6 's play hard to get.
Maybe hbs 8 is tired of orbiters while hb6 is seeking for more of em
 

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Breaking news: No one's perfect.
It's all about measuring the goods and bads, and knowing if you can t o l e r a t e the bad.

If a girl's perfect and treats you like a king would you dump her just because she doesn't have the highest IQ in town?
 
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