My stepsister moved in with us about two months ago.. She would keep tryin to get with me.. she would sleep in my bed and call me all the time.. we fooled around a few times and she even kissed me once.. then all the sudden she says this is wrong your my brother and would still continue flirting with me and sleepin in my bed.. when i try to talk to her about why she would flirt with me and sleep in my bed she would say i dont know what you are talkin about, which i dont understand cause i know she knows what im talkin about.. she would purposely try to make me jealous by callin all her little boyfriends whenever she is around me and i wouldnt care and told her to go away.. the other day i asked her if she was just fakin everything that happened a couple of weeks ago, or if she is just fakin like she dont like me and dont know what im talkin about.. please help me i like her alot and im confused about her mixed signals she is sending me
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
i think my stepsister likes me
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
navyseal2101
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Hit that. Shes just trying to make you jealous.
i am 18 and she is 16.. i dont wanna tell her to stop.. i wanna get with her.. but the problem is she keeps acting like nothing ever happened.. i aint sure if she is just playing hard to get or just lost her feelings for me overnight
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
navyseal2101
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Yea, its not immoral imo.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
a man should have enough options in life where his own step sister is not only off guards, she is of no effect to him.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yeah, lay off your sister!backbreaker said:
Imagine what would happen if it would end badly!? in a typical situation you won't have to ever see the girl. In your situation, she is right next door.
Always look for easy entrances and easy exits. Which is why I think I could never get married because if the sh1t hits the fan, the exit would be difficult. In your situation, you might be kicked out of the house if it ends badly.
BacardiGuy
Senior Don Juan
Scenario: You two hook up, get together, fight over something stupid, break up, your mom gets married to this guy, and she lives with you forever.
Come on now. This is a no brainer.
Come on now. This is a no brainer.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
freggin ewwwww
tell her to get the eff outta yer room
the last thing you want is the parents thinking your doing your "new" sister
tell her to get the eff outta yer room
the last thing you want is the parents thinking your doing your "new" sister
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I got the perfect movie for ya
http://gfx1.gamelink.com/GLImages/prodimages/203915.jpg
(props for me actually finding one suitable enough to post here)
http://gfx1.gamelink.com/GLImages/prodimages/203915.jpg
(props for me actually finding one suitable enough to post here)
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Not even your stepsister, but your parent's lover's daughter. Technically OK (maybe even cute in a weird sitcom sort of way), but as the others have said, can open up a real can or worms -- at least until you're both out and on your own. In the meantime, you should have lots of other options.
smooth guy
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Tell her she is a sick ****.
As for you im sure you can do better than that. It's like ****ing your cousin for **** sake
As for you im sure you can do better than that. It's like ****ing your cousin for **** sake
BadAssMoFo
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hit that.
hit that HARD
hit that HARD
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