i think my girl is cheating

[D'light]

hey

im in a long distance relationship and this is my first one ever so im inexperienced but i feel like my girl is cheating on me or wanting to.... here's the scoop

normally we talk every day she text messages me a lot too every day also...
well we talked wednesday and we are both doing these competitons and she was talking about her team and mentioned a guy on it. she said her team had been slacking but this guy sent an email out with all this info and her dads this big shot accountant (we are both accounting students and thats what type of competition it is) and she described him as cute....then said wait thats not a good word....impressive or something like that

well yesterday i heard nothing from her so i text her around 6 and say whats going on babe- and i get back "3 hour meeting" i say well damn let me know how that goes....no reply whatsoever

nothing all day today, i call her at 2:30 and she sounds groggy so i ask if shes ok says she was sleeping so i say ok well call me later and she says she will.....

no call

i called her 10 minutes ago at 10:30 and it rings twice then voice mail...normally its one ring...so its like she clicked it over... and still no ansewr

what's going on???

 

[KillaCam]

Chill.

You're being way paranoid.

Why are you contacting her everyday? She's your girlfriend, not your entire life. Tone down on the constant need for contact, otherwise things will get stale awfully quick. She's already noticing it too, hence the pulling back on attention.

Don't jump to conclusions buddy. Insecurity is one way to kill a good thing.

Relax

 

[D'light]

well....the thing is...she is always the one calling and sending text messages to ME- so....the sudden stop is reason for suspicion

 

[KillaCam]

well....the thing is...she is always the one calling and sending text messages to ME- so....the sudden stop is reason for suspicion

Maybe it's cheating.

But maybe's don't get you anywhere.

Chances are, she's realised what constant contact is doing to the relationship. Keep tabs, but don't sweat it buddy. Chicks can smell insecurity a mile away, and once she gets a wiff, you'll be history.

The situation is normal, hang tight.

 

[D'light]

i hope you guys are right my friend thinks it sounds liek cheating too so should i just wait at this point and let her initiate the next contact?

 

[KillaCam]

i hope you guys are right my friend thinks it sounds liek cheating too so should i just wait at this point and let her initiate the next contact?

Wait out a couple of days. When she's going to talk, she's going to talk. Then things will be clearer.

Talking to her now, or in an hour, or tomorrow morning is only going to be hounding. Perhaps she needs space. Until then, have a beer, plenty of productive things to do other than worrying.

Good luck buddy

 

[D'light]

sounds good ill do that

 

[Bussey]

Well I always trust my instinct. Long Distance relationships in themselves are awful. But whatev, give her the benefit of the doubt just cause.... she's sucked your **** (I'd hope). Haha.

 

[WC2]

I hate long distance relationships.

Anyways, she's not cheating on you; yet. Women rarely and I mean RARELY bring up a guy they are cheating on you with. Especially in those terms.

If anything, she's testing you to see how you respond to a little jealousy. And sorry to say, you failed the test. You showed her that you're insecure about yourself in the relationship and that you actually think she would cheat on you.

Don't put the ***** on a pedastal. Women will test their mates till the day they die. It never stops. Get back up and don't let her run things.