salsadance007 said:
Right, so there are a few physical things that could be the problem. Girls can orgasm in three different ways. One, through ****oral stimulation. Two, through g-spot stimulation. three, through g-spot and ****oral stimulation.
Some girls physically don't have a g-spot, so they will never come that way. It is a small percentage though, and it is almost a birth defect. ALL girls are physically capable of coming. But the problem is that girls get turned on first mentally. This is super tricky cus so many things play into this part. She could have been molested or raped growing up so she has a mental block to coming. She could feel self concious about it, and phsyc herself out of coming.
Best thing to do is communicate. Honestly. Ask her what she likes, and make her feel comfortable. If she feels like you are trying to please her, then it will slowly relax her. Hope this helps.
Step 1: Be confident
Step 2: Don't discuss or make a big deal of whether or not she can orgasm if she brings up that she cant just smile at her confidently and change the subject.
Step 3: Get her turned on and horny. Physical push/pull does this well but dont OVERDO it.
Step 4: Show some dominance.
Step 5: When things start getting physical make sure you take care of her but are also dominant, smell her, slowly work her up, a nice comfortable environment with good smells can help, drive her crazy and tease her, talk dirty in her ear (and blow in it, and tell secrets in her ears and talk real deep in her ear), take command (pin her arms down), exhaust her patience for the co-ck, ectect. (If you do it right a lot of girls will start to literally beg and whine for your **** and grab for it trying to cram it into their *****)
Step 6: Every girl should be able to *** from her ****orus, when you get her close a few times back off, keep her guessing. You yourself must be patient. You get her off once or twice in the **** and her G-spot will swell.
*You should really hit the sex knowledge and figure out advanced **** with the **** and g-spot. Pay attention to how she is reacting to what your doing, and what gets her excited. One time I was licking this girls **** and she was one of the ones that said she couldnt orgasm and had no g-spot. I was licking circular and up and down and she was into it but I could tell she was exaggerating, then I changed and started going back and forth left to right and picked up the pace, she cummed very fast after that. My fingers were inside her stimulating all those nerves, and I had been tryin to find the g-spot. I couldnt find it but after she came it swelled a bit and I found it. I explained to her that she did have one that it just takes a lot of arousal for it to be found -- she flashed me a knowing smile.
Sometimes it's just that girls are hard to orgasm and they get insecure that you wont like them if you cant get them off so they lower your expectations -- but trust me, there are guys that have got them off.
And dude if worse comes to worse and you just can't get her to ***, dont sweat it. Don't let her see you visably frustrated. Be patient and cool with her. It's ok if you can't. Just be the guy who comes over, rips her clothes off, and fu-ck's her silly till YOU ***, throw her around a bit. Be dominant. Be gentle. Alternate. As long as you make her feel like a woman and she knows she can please you then the sex will be hot. Let her suck your **** a few times too and tell her how good she is at it. Make her feel sexy and you will be surprised to find that suddenly she may indeed be able to orgasm.
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