"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I think I've hit what many of you call DJ status

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To me there is no don juan. Its just all about improving yourself and being your improved self. I dont care about looks. I dont rate chicks on a scale of 1-10. However I dont date fat chicks either. I will never approach any chick unless she smiles back at me. I will never cold approach unless the girl is so stuning that its like a once in a life time thing, or she gives me a boner. I never stare at a girl's butt/tits, I only lust after that of which belongs to me. I never go anywhere with the sole intent of approaching. I never practice on any chicks, whats the point, its a waste of mine and her time. I always make eye contact, I always smile and stand straight. Iam never jealous. I dont care if so and so is dating this hot chick.

I could go on and on with the short sentences, this whole website and all this load of crap is just telling you to just improve yourself in every way possible, be happy in life, and strive for your dreams. Honestly, I used to come here every day, now its like once every few weeks. The only reason id come back to this site is to get advice i REALLY CANNOT SOLVE MYSELF or to learn some interesting conversation psychology(which i can get from a book)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by gimmeyofonenumba
. I dont care about looks. I dont rate chicks on a scale of 1-10. I will never approach any chick unless she smiles back at me. I will never cold approach unless the girl is so stuning that its like a once in a life time thing, or she gives me a boner


You dont care about looks, BUT you never approach unless its a once in a life time thing?? Kinda setting limits on yourself right?


I never stare at a girl's butt/tits
Bull****, if you dont you must be gay.

I only lust after that of which belongs to me. I never go anywhere with the sole intent of approaching. I never practice on any chicks, whats the point, its a waste of mine and her time. I always make eye contact, I always smile and stand straight. Iam never jealous. I dont care if so and so is dating this hot chick.
Cool for you. Ever thought of approaching for fun or to warm up??

I could go on and on with the short sentences, this whole website and all this load of crap is just telling you to just improve yourself in every way possible, be happy in life, and strive for your dreams. Honestly, I used to come here every day, now its like once every few weeks. The only reason id come back to this site is to get advice i REALLY CANNOT SOLVE MYSELF or to learn some interesting conversation psychology(which i can get from a book) [/B]
I think youre taking this WAY TOO seriously. Everything seems either black or white for you, maybe im wrong but thats how you seem.
 

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Thats a different mindset, but we think alike to some extent.
i read a post where some guy said dont directly stare at a gals breast or body because its gives her the upperhand, i agree with that i also approach women that give me signals.

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Nah, I dont see the point in a warmup. Ive done the sarging thing where i would approach 4-5 in a few hours. My first approach was always the most succesfull. I forgot to mention what really sets me apart from most of you on here, is that im not dying to get laid. Im looking for a relationship. One night stand aint my thing.

Yes, I dont stare at a girl's lovely figure. I may glance but i still try to resist. This is more of a personal thing, where I think if a girl catches you she thinks she has dominance over you. ITs why she is wearing that slutty outfit, and you are just giving her what she wants. You'd be suprised ohh how so good a girl is at detecting if your checking out her butt and obviously her tits.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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that's great, and I know you must have it going well, because you've given me good dance advice a while back. thanks, and good luck with the rest of your journey.

I also agree with not doing "warm-ups" for the sake of it...every approach does count.

however, regarding this:
Originally posted by gimmeyofonenumba
Yes, I dont stare at a girl's lovely figure. I may glance but i still try to resist. This is more of a personal thing, where I think if a girl catches you she thinks she has dominance over you. ITs why she is wearing that slutty outfit, and you are just giving her what she wants. You'd be suprised ohh how so good a girl is at detecting if your checking out her butt and obviously her tits.
I check out a girl, knowing she will catch me, hence the point of projecting sexuality. I'm not asexual or gay. Last night I approached a cute chick, and as we talked (for like 30 some min), I would glance at her tits, and she would even do this thing by licking her fork and spoon really sensually like it's a lollipop, while looking at me. Yeah, sort of teasing, but I think girls like to see a guy is enticed by them, and as long as you can tease and show them you are interesting, it doesn't matter, imo.
 

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I think it's ok you check-out the girl you are macking .but checking some random girl out and whistling is pointless. you give her power and attention.

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