I think im sick of her.

[killbill]

So about a year a ago I met this HB8 I really though she was hot. What was cool about her was she had a good personallity and everything. She was five years older than me though, but I didnt care. The thing was she had a b/f.. She was with him for I think she said five years.

So I was just a friend to her. Me and her worked together almost everyday. And I believed we both had alot of fun to. Well we worked together for probably almost 6 months, then I quit cause my bosses were treating me like s*it and I didnt need the job badly.

So we stopped talking and I started to realize I tried my hardest to have made her dump her dumbass b/f. She even told me he was f*cking lazy and all this S*it. But she never wanted to give up on him. She though he had a good heart. Well I then totally lost interest in her over time.

About 8 months later she finds my on myspace.com and tells me hi how are you? and I write me back just saying what im up to and stuff. About a 3 days later she writes me saying I look cute and that us two need to go to the movies and stuff. Im thinking why? dont you have a b/f? so I write her saying I cant cause im busy(sp). BTW she is still with that dude.

I have totally lost interest in her. I have moved on I feel. Even though she has a good personallity and stuff I feel as if she could have dumped him long time ago. Its weird I lost so much interest in her that I feel like saying to her go f*ck yourself. weird huh? I also dont find her to be hot anymore.

So what I want to know is this normall that I totally lost interest in her? and am I being a pr*ck? And have you ever felt like this? please let me know.

 

[WesCottII]

I might be way off the plate here, but it seems to me she never had any sexual interest in you, because as we all know Women are like monkeys, always looking for a higher branch to swing to, and unfortuntaly, she didn't value you (her loss, I'm sure) as a higher branch than her b/f, or shed've jumped your bones.

In any case after re-reading your post you were "just a friend to her", what did you expect? Women don't sleep with their friends.

She misses the attention you lavished on her in your period together, nothing more. If perhaps you manned up, met her and acted like a man, rather than a g/f, you might stand a chance, but it's rarely ever worth it.

Personally, I'd leave it.

 

[KontrollerX]

Yeah its completely normal once you are well into the DJ mindset.

She had her chance to be with you and she fvcked up.

Now she's either trying to make you her girlfriend or get a second chance at something with you.

Don't let her do either if its not what you want.

 

[ManOfMystery]

I say go to a movie with her and try to hookup* that very day to see where your at with her. If it works, enjoy, if not...just forget about her! What do you have to lose?

*hookup with her if YOU want to, if not don't even bother.

 

[J-Bone]

Yeah its completely normal once you are well into the DJ mindset.

She had her chance to be with you and she fvcked up.

Now she's either trying to make you her girlfriend or get a second chance at something with you.

Don't let her do either if its not what you want.

Impressive these are my very thoughts on the story!