I think I'm in some serious shyt

[Bigg Boss]

Just dropped this girl off at her house at around 1:30AM crying. (we're still in highschool)


Thing is, I'm not exactly sure WHY she's crying. For the first time we really got really intimate. I mean backseat action this time :woo: . And it really got to the point where she had a her shirt off and we were just really makin out and talkin. I didn't have a condom on me so I was really teasin this chick makin her want it more and more. So I decided to try to persuade her to give me head. I got her to suck my finger for a while then tried to motion her. She kept denying saying "I can't, I just can't" so I decided, OK, it's OK. Then after about a minute she started looking sick. Then she was like "I just wanna go home, I wanna get outta the car". So I'm sitting here trying to turn into the good guy and try to see if she's OK. Then I ride her home with some music trying to change the mood.

I drop her off but before she gets out I try to see if she's OK. She wouldn't even look at me. I eventually let her out and try again outisde the car. I got her to look at me, but she still wouldn't tell me anything. I kept telling her "It's gonna be OK, OK?" being real sincere about it. Then I just let her go as she ran to the house.


Thing is, she isn't a virgin. Only because her boyfriend ****ed her when she was drunk (she knew what was goin on tho). I don't know if she's traumatized or what. All I know is, she's prolly gonna spill somethin to her mom. And her mom knows my mom rather well. And well... Seems like I'm in some shyt.


What the hell is going on? When didn't get anything done, she tried to tempt me, then I tried to tempt her with something else. We both denied. So what's wrong with her?

 

[KneghtRyder]

What the hell is going on? When didn't get anything done, she tried to tempt me, then I tried to tempt her with something else. We both denied. So what's wrong with her?

first off, outside of your mom getting told , whats the concern, you didn't f**k her and shes not going to press charges.


this is how its done bro - and bring a condom for christs sake next time


get liquor in her a good amount , don't do it in the car , goto an open field or apartment ( anywhere where you have alot of space) ....

you don't go, treat, and go again ( she'll catch on and get the reaction you got, you just have to be really aggressive )

act like your in the moment, and be forceful , you have to be really sexually forceful, wrap your arms around her,, ...grab her, take her clothes her, and do it.

Now as long as she doesn't start fighting you off -- she accepted what you did and just drop her home and don't say anything. she'll going to love you in the morning or at least wanna be willing to F**k again.

My feeling is when you became the nice guy - something clicked in her and she began to resist. You have to use the gunwitch and be aggressive ...

 

[young_gun]

Who cares man, girls don't make sense. And it's probably more trouble than it's worth to figure out why she didn't want to have sex with you, or whatever it was that you two were going to do.

Plus, you didn't force anything upon her and therefore will have no lawsuits to deal with or anything. You were respectful enough not to force yourself upon her and in my mind, that makes you a decent guy. You have desires as a man. As a man, you want sex. There's nothing wrong with that. If she didn't turn you down at first, she probably wanted it too (at least at some point) but something happened along the way and it turned out that it was better for her not to sleep with you. Take pride in the fact that you acted like a man and that you didn't apologize for any desires that you have. It's much better to be labeled as an aggressive prick than to have women think you're out to be their friend and emotional tampon. Plus, you can go out and meet a woman who will appreciate you and your desires. So in the end, you win.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Quit feeling guilty for her being a hor!!!! What the hell is she doing alone with a guy - let alone at 1:30 AM!!!!! What is she going to say to her mom "I'm a hor"???

 

[KneghtRyder]

dude remember this,

"if she says anything -> it was her fault for egging you on"

"its already done, your not a virgin, we should screw every friday"

dont be puzz e , she just a mission, job or number you dont try to worry about her feelings mr. 'nice guy' , because if you do, the next guy will gladly do it and enjoy that pezzzy.

 

[Serialized3]

Sounds like a young chick who's messed up in the head (probably on medication for depression, anxiety, or something) and probably really insecure in her sexuality.

Stay away from this chick, it's not worth getting in trouble for some pink. I'd suggest being friendly but distant. You don't need her talking sh!t about you to the other girls at school, her parents, or Johnny Law.

 

[ValleyDJing]

What is she going to say to her mom "I'm a hor"???

LOL! Very true. She ain't gonna talk.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

I wouldn't mess with her ever again.Get one of your prettyboy freinds after her cuz if just poof and dissapear she might say you did something to her.

 

[reset]

Sounds like she started feeling like a slut. You were making out, having her shirt off, she's sucking your finger, not a bad evening considering. You pushed for too much too soon with a girl who isn't comfortable with being sexual just yet.

You still handled it well. Forget about the game playing. There's a chance, that she actually LIKES you but just doesn't want to feel like a dirty slut. If that's all you want from her, then yeah, leave her alone. If you have any type of feelings or respect from her though, at least show her it didn't phase you, you can handle her little insecurities, you don't hate her, aren't mad, and you can make her feel SAFE with you. Making her comfortable with her sexuality may end up being your responsibility, so be classy about it, is my advice.

 

[Bigg Boss]

Sounds like she started feeling like a slut. You were making out, having her shirt off, she's sucking your finger, not a bad evening considering. You pushed for too much too soon with a girl who isn't comfortable with being sexual just yet.

You still handled it well. Forget about the game playing. There's a chance, that she actually LIKES you but just doesn't want to feel like a dirty slut. If that's all you want from her, then yeah, leave her alone. If you have any type of feelings or respect from her though, at least show her it didn't phase you, you can handle her little insecurities, you don't hate her, aren't mad, and you can make her feel SAFE with you. Making her comfortable with her sexuality may end up being your responsibility, so be classy about it, is my advice.

I must've forgot to add in my first post that she really wanted to f*ck. I'm not Mr. "nice guy" at all. She really wanted to ****, she was on top of me, I was just teasin the shyt outta of her. She wanted me to just pull her pants off but I have alot of self control and I'm never ****ing without contraceptives ever again (I almost learned my lesson the HARDEST way last time, same type of situation cept I gave in). So I just teased her for fun.

So since I made up my mind that I wasn't gonna **** her, I decided to try and get her to give me head. I didn't ask her, but I pulled alot of moves that would've worked on ANY girl. But I guess she finally realized what exactly was going on and was feeling terribly bad. LOL was around her today at a meeting and she couldn't even talk to me, she could barely look at me.

But I'm OK though, her mom didn't speak to me today. I could've ****ed her if I wanted to like I said. But I didn't, that was my decision. I'm just hoping I don't have to deal with any drama.

 

[young_gun]

LOL, That's friggin weird man, I don't know what would have happened. I'd just punch her in the back of the head. Problem solved.

 

[Viking25]

sounds like she was raped or molested in the car....some dude came into her mouth and sh1t..She had bad assosiation.