I think I'm in love with 2 chicks...

[shop until I die!]

I feel really bad for having to write this as it's something I should be able to sort out myself but I can't.
Basically, I love two girls dearly and I can't choose between the two.
I met Anne 18 months ago? We had some great times at the beginning but I always found myself wanting more, but never did anything about it and worked hard at our relationship.
She's a lovely girl but always needs someone in her life, she's very dependent on people.
I found myself resenting her occasionally as I too needed attention and found myself always having to give it.
She's such a sweet girl, but sometimes too sweet and that frustrated me as she got walked over from time to time.
We ended up moving in together and everything seemed Ok.
Well, she was over the moon and found myself feeling more and more trapped. Having to convince her I loved and cared for her. This took it's toll on me.
Do I sound bad saying that ? We got on really well but were never on that same level you want out of a relationship.
I could explain things about work, life, music etc and it went straight over her head. I'd just get the "Ahh.."Erm.." Really".. As if it was never being taken it.
I never got over the fact that I could come home after a bad day and explain everything to her with no advice back, on the other hand I always had to be a pool of information for her.
One day at work a girl came to our offices. She was working with us for 9 weeks on work placement. We clicked in so many ways it scared me. We got on so well from the start.
I promised myself nothing would come of it as it was so evident that we really liked each other.
To cut a long story short we ended up kissing on a night out and that was it. She's such a beautiful girl, listens to everything I say and understands.. Always has good advice to give me etc.. We did the usual office fling bit and went for lunches, walks in the park etc?
I ended up moving out of my house with Anne and moving into my brother's house whilst still seeing Ellen, the new girl.
Anne had no idea what was going on. I never told her I was seeing someone else, I didn't want to hurt her more than I already had.
Now 3 months down the line I don't know which one I want to be with. I love Anne so much, but I also love Ellen with the same passion. It's like Ellen gives me what Anne doesn't and vice-versa.
Anne wants me back and Ellen and I are still together.
Part of me wants to "go home" and part of me is scared to stay with Ellen.
I'm so confused. I love them both very much.
I guess one of the main reasons I can't decide is because of where I am living. In a single room at my brother's house.
My house with Anne is cool, we had it set up nice.. I miss that. I miss her. But when I see her it's so different.
She's the same sweet sweet girl who wouldn't harm anyone? But at the same time she frustrates me because she's so "soft".
Ellen is the complete opposite. She's a strong girl and I love her for that.
Anne is working away at the moment. She won't be local to me for 3 or 4 months. I feel so lonely and desperate at times but how can I as I have Ellen? I miss Anne all the time but is it because I'm in a situation right now that I don't like so I go for the easiest option and go home.
But what about Ellen? I can't just walk out on that, I Love her. I can see us being together forever, but I thought that about Anne? I feel like such a s---. I never saw my life ending up like this, at 28 !
It seems so text-book. So, problem page in a mag.
I just wish I could turn the clock back.
Any advice is good advice, please help.

 

[TonyWongButOhSoRite]

You're definitly someone takeing the pi$$. Last week you where after sleeping with you're best friends wife and now you're in love with 2 girls. Get outta here you sad idiot. Someone ban this fool.

 

[Maxtro]

Why choose? Bang them both. Heck there are four girls that I want to have sex with right now.

 

[Bvbidd]

What? You mean you only wanna have sex with 4? I thought all guys naturally want all of em. I know I do.

 

[Real]

you might wanna re=post this in the mature section

i doubt that 18 year old virgins can give a real playa like u sound advice

MY advice, having been in your situation before, date them both, love them both, double the pleasure and double the fun, and eventually, love for one of them WILL fade (or maybe 1 of them will screw u over or watever), and in the end, when the dusk clears, there will be only 1 left

 

[saber]

yah i think this guy is full a ****...

 

[hbxdoode]

damn bro, your posting is wayyyyy toooo long, take my advice, keep it short, no one wants to read all that crap!!!!!!

 

[TonyWongButOhSoRite]

you might wanna re=post this in the mature section

i doubt that 18 year old virgins can give a real playa like u sound advice

MY advice, having been in your situation before, date them both, love them both, double the pleasure and double the fun, and eventually, love for one of them WILL fade (or maybe 1 of them will screw u over or watever), and in the end, when the dusk clears, there will be only 1 left

Im not a virgin. Just ask you're mother or you're sister, even ask you're girl. You aint much of a DJ if you can't tell when someone is makeing a story up. Go fcuk a kettle, Make sure its hot and boiling.

 

[Real]

huh?

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Alright, let me get this straight. You love Anne alot. But, she does not give you what you want. On the other hand this new woman Ellen, does give you what you want. Now, you must figure out who is best for you!! Do you want a woman who gives you what you want or a womam who needs as much attention as you. If you really want to stay with Anne tell her how you feel about your needs and if they can't be met then, the relationship will have to end. So, it all comes down to 1 woman. Who is right for you? Who will be there for you? Who will forfill your needs? That, is something you have to dig deep down to figure out! Also, keep your mouth shut to Anne about Ellen. What she don't know won't hurt her.

 

[D!ck Ramsey]

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