"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think im growing out of American Eagle style

Zaraza

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Hey guys,

sometimes i think the whole american eagle style is getting to childish at times, everyone has it. Whats something you could reccomend, i was thinkin bout going something more mature...?

got any suggestions,

i have a different style ima try out, just wanna know what you guys think.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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try my style.

I just go to second hand stores and buy dirt cheap clothing that looks pretty damn good on me :rockon:

I haven't spent over $50 in the past six years on clothing and I got some of the nicest clothing at my college and girls are asking me out. It helps to be physically fit and trying to start a business that I know will take off within the next five to six years.

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The Forms

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when you wear abercrombie and american eagle you look like a kid in high school with rich parents.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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haha my parents arnt rich infact i have to work to help my mother pay for bills, i buy my clothes on sale, 6 dollars for a new shirt is nice.
 

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i personally think american eagle, hollister and A&E are really fruity and highschoolish.


I personally like clothing stores such as:

Zara
Express
Armani Exchange
Aldo
Ofcourse Macy's

These are the stores i prefer over others, i personally dont care about brands (unless its the ones i hate hollister, a&e...etc), whatever looks good and fits my taste i get.
 
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Well if you have money to spend you can buy high end stuff like Hugo Boss, Armani, Ralph Lauren, Hilfigger, Polo or Italian brands. I want to get these but I'm poor so I usually get the 2nd hand stuff at malls. I don't really like American Eagle, Hollister, Banna Republic or A&B either, they all look the same and it makes you look "preppy" and ppl will think your a f*g. Personally there's nothing wrong with being fashionable, like wearing button downs or polos, but most ppl who wear those clothes go all out and wear the brand from head to toe EVERYDAY, which is BORING for women. If your athletic then the store Pacson isn't that bad cuz it has cool but expensive brands like Quicksilver and Billabong.
 
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Charm&Style said:
pacsun is over priced.
Thanks for repeating my point... lol That's probably the only store that sells brands like quicksilver and billabong or any other kind of surfer clothes. I personally like those brands cuz they last like GAP clothing. I'm pretty sure they sell cheaper stuff at SEARS.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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this is gay.

wear whatever makes you feel comfortable and be reasonably coordinated with color schemes. there are clown wearing suits and gangstas wearing wal-mart, who gives a fvck.
 

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6-heads lewis said:
this is gay.

wear whatever makes you feel comfortable and be reasonably coordinated with color schemes. there are clown wearing suits and gangstas wearing wal-mart, who gives a fvck.
thank you.
 
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Actually chicks actually do give a f*ck about what you wear. Did you know that the most important part to your appearance is your haircut and shoes. If you actually go out sarging and actually talk to HBs then they'll tell you that they insantly judge a guy by his shoes and hair, if he dresses like sh*t you prob screwed up most of you chances. I'm not saying looks are the most important it sure helps your game and makes things easier just like Pook's thread on physical apperance and how getting jacked and having a nice body did most of the attracting. If you could do the samething with wearning nice clothes wouldn't you do it? just so can create more oppurtunities. That's just me but u guys can do what you want.
 

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i dont think this is the wrong forum, it makes sense, clothes help you with your apearance which in a sense is health, which inturn increases your fitness apearance.

plus in health and fitness we all care what we look like haha.

no its not gay,

a dude who doesnt give a **** about how he dresses needs to grow up. We all gotta mature.

thats that

thanks guys, keep it coming, i really like the armani clothing, but it is expensive maybe i can catch a sale or something.

its amazing what you can get when you spend your money wisely.
 

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ok fine u spend your time roming around shoppign malls fitting suits and ill spend that time eating and working out with a wardrobe full of track-pants and wife beaters we'll see who looks better
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If thats the way you would like to live your life, its is your decision.

Its not about looks its about class, i work out on a daily schedule myself and i look good. Im right where i wanna be 160 pounds and 7% body fat.
there is no need to degrade a person by saying they will look worse than you. This has just turned into comical nonsense.

so feel free to close this thread if needed.
 

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Look into some dress clothes. The shirts should fit well, but the pants a little baggy. Nothing sloppy though. Don't tuck your shirt in, I used to do that..didn't look as good and "casual" as when it's untucked
 

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dont worry zaraza i never claim to be better looking than anyone, if you saw me you'd know why. im syaing spending excessive time on your clothing can be counter-productive for many perosnality types, like in my case.

and american eagle is gay, as is a&f or hollisters or whaetver the fvk people are wasting money on nowadays. i dont know why people bother getting jobs, they eagerly throw away their moeny as soon as they earn it.

if you're interested in maximizing your looks on an average budget, youre best off investing in food and a gym membership
 

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Thanks lewis,

man you shouldn't talk negatively about yourself, thats only gonna bring you down. I agree with you though, spending money on good nutrition and gym membership is very beneficial to your out look.

I'm looking into dress clothes now, it gonna be weird being one of the only high school kids dressed in nice classy style, but I'm Russian, so i can pull of the Russian mafia look haha.
 

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sometimes I really wonder what type of people the people of this forum party or chill with
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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