I think i'm gonna focus a ton of energy and effort towards online dating

[bigdave17]

Should I get professional pictures done? I'm not saying green screen photos with me looking super cheesy but just have a professional photographer take some nice quality but natural pics of me. I feel like I look horrible in pictures in real life (I look much much better in videos) so maybe a professional can bring out how I look in real life to pics?? I'm leaning this way because I am very picky and I rarely meet anybody I want...on top of that, those women are rarely single and in a situation where there are not 100,000 obstacles in the way. With online dating, I can at least filter out all the nonsense (single moms, smokers, etc...)

Do I put my income on there? I've heard guys making 150K+ are hugely attractive on dating sites. I don't want to meet a gold digger but I understand why that would be very attractive to a woman making say 80K herself - she wants to find someone very successful.

Thoughts on this? You guys all know what my standards are and you've seen pics of me. What's my realistic chance of finding what I want online?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Should I get professional pictures done? I'm not saying green screen photos with me looking super cheesy but just have a professional photographer take some nice quality but natural pics of me. I feel like I look horrible in pictures in real life (I look much much better in videos) so maybe a professional can bring out how I look in real life to pics??


I'm leaning this way because I am very picky and I rarely meet anybody I want...on top of that, those women are rarely single and in a situation where there are not 100,000 obstacles in the way. With online dating, I can at least filter out all the nonsense (single moms, smokers, etc...)


Thoughts on this? You guys all know what my standards are and you've seen pics of me. What's my realistic chance of finding what I want online?

Your too picky for where you currently are at in the game.

 

[bigdave17]

Your too picky for where you currently are at in the game.

I'm looking for a relationship

I can easily get a fat girl or a 35 year old, but I've already had that multiple times and it didn't help my development at all for finding what I really want (which is a cute, classy and genuinely wonderful 23-28 year old). What's the point of entertaining that?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I'm looking for a relationship

I can easily get a fat girl or a 35 year old, but I've already had that multiple times and it didn't help my development at all for finding what I really want (which is a cute, classy and genuinely wonderful 23-28 year old). What's the point of entertaining that?

Fvck those and let them give you head till you get where you want to be. Then don't be so superficial because alot of those "fat" girls have alot more to offer than a skinny one because they have to. They'll make good friends and will go into their purses for you. I'm about to focus on player supreme method god bless him. He really was trying to help men in the face of escalating feminism and betaization of males.

 

[bigdave17]

Fvck those and let them give you head till you get where you want to be.

don't care about casual sex, I want a girlfriend
didn't I just tell you I've had sex with multiple women who are too chunky or attractive but too old and didn't help me at all with my development?

then don't be so superficial because alot of those "fat" girls have alot more to offer than a skinny one because they have to. They'll make good friends and will go into their purses for you. I'm about to focus on player supreme method good bless him. He really was trying to help men in the face of escalating feminism and betaization of males.

go in their purse? dude you think I'm gonna let some broad making 1/6th my income pay for my food or drinks? You insane

also I'm not interested in fat or skinny, I'm looking for fitness types who still have nice thick ass and legs.

 

[corrector]

Should I get professional pictures done? I'm not saying green screen photos with me looking super cheesy but just have a professional photographer take some nice quality but natural pics of me. I feel like I look horrible in pictures in real life (I look much much better in videos) so maybe a professional can bring out how I look in real life to pics?? I'm leaning this way because I am very picky and I rarely meet anybody I want...on top of that, those women are rarely single and in a situation where there are not 100,000 obstacles in the way. With online dating, I can at least filter out all the nonsense (single moms, smokers, etc...)

Do I put my income on there? I've heard guys making 150K+ are hugely attractive on dating sites. I don't want to meet a gold digger but I understand why that would be very attractive to a woman making say 80K herself - she wants to find someone very successful.

Thoughts on this? You guys all know what my standards are and you've seen pics of me. What's my realistic chance of finding what I want online?

Why don't you try speed-dating instead?

 

[wifehunter]

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Why don't you try speed-dating instead?

This will let us get the reps in to build our emotional intelligence regarding interest and dating very quickly, huh? I

 

[bigdave17]

This will let us get the reps in to build our emotional intelligence regarding interest and dating very quickly, huh? I

no luck finding these in my area

 

[mrgoodstuff]

no luck finding these in my area

I'm sure they are where I'm at. I feel like it'll help alot.

 

[derby1]

OP the point of attracting women and working with ones who aren't quite your "ideal"

is that when your ideal does come along you have built confidence and charisma plus command respect

Because currently you are in no way ready to deal with this ideal woman

Toys will fly out your pram on the first sign of a test, and you will be dumped

 

[Desdinova]

Should I get professional pictures done?

Yes

Do I put my income on there?

Yes

What's my realistic chance of finding what I want online?

Astronomically high

 

[sosousage]

I'm looking for a relationship

I can easily get a fat girl or a 35 year old, but I've already had that multiple times and it didn't help my development at all for finding what I really want (which is a cute, classy and genuinely wonderful 23-28 year old). What's the point of entertaining that?

fat girls ? or ENTITLED FAT GIRLS? honestly id have no issues having sex with them but showing with them public hell not

 

[Spaz]

Yes


Yes


Astronomically high

Roflmao!

"Grabs a bottle of beer, kicks back his chair and enjoys the show "

 

[btownbuck2012]

I know a lot of people knock tinder, bumble, online dating, etc. but if you, OP, put the right type of pics up you'd clean up. You're a handsome guy. I think your interpersonal skills are sh*t and you clearly don't know how to communicate/talk to women in a way that builds attraction/comfort but I think that can all be corrected once you see women showing interest.

1. You need a pic or two of you smiling with other people, preferably one of you with friends and another with a woman or two.

2. A pic or two of you taking a selfie like the one you posted on here the other day where you are dressed in some nice clothes.

3. One of you at the gym with a muscle shirt, just something where they can see your arms, chest, etc.

Now, you'll get a lot of attention. Again, you're a good looking dude. You know that. Your issue will be banter and just acting normal enough to get these women to meet up with you. That can all be learned and improved upon.

Also cut the "I have high standards" horsesh*t. It's obvious at this point that's a cover up on your part for inexperience.

 

[sosousage]

I know a lot of people knock tinder, bumble, online dating, etc. but if you, OP, put the right type of pics up you'd clean up. You're a handsome guy. I think your interpersonal skills are sh*t and you clearly don't know how to communicate/talk to women in a way that builds attraction/comfort but I think that can all be corrected once you see women showing interest.

1. You need a pic or two of you smiling with other people, preferably one of you with friends and another with a woman or two.

2. A pic or two of you taking a selfie like the one you posted on here the other day where you are dressed in some nice clothes.

3. One of you at the gym with a muscle shirt, just something where they can see your arms, chest, etc.

Now, you'll get a lot of attention. Again, you're a good looking dude. You know that. Your issue will be banter and just acting normal enough to get these women to meet up with you. That can all be learned and improved upon.

Also cut the "I have high standards" horsesh*t. It's obvious at this point that's a cover up on your part for inexperience.

My old friends said they have high standards and all girls around are ugly. They are still virgins at 23 lul

 

[Spaz]

Should I get professional pictures done? I'm not saying green screen photos with me looking super cheesy but just have a professional photographer take some nice quality but natural pics of me. I feel like I look horrible in pictures in real life (I look much much better in videos) so maybe a professional can bring out how I look in real life to pics?? I'm leaning this way because I am very picky and I rarely meet anybody I want...on top of that, those women are rarely single and in a situation where there are not 100,000 obstacles in the way. With online dating, I can at least filter out all the nonsense (single moms, smokers, etc...)

Do I put my income on there? I've heard guys making 150K+ are hugely attractive on dating sites. I don't want to meet a gold digger but I understand why that would be very attractive to a woman making say 80K herself - she wants to find someone very successful.

Thoughts on this? You guys all know what my standards are and you've seen pics of me. What's my realistic chance of finding what I want online?

U need 2 check urself with a medical specialist and find out if u hv Asperger Syndrome.

It's a very mild form of autism which inhibits ur ability to have a normal social interaction.

Which explains why after threads upon threads of advice u r still stuck in a loop.

 

[derby1]

U need 2 check urself with a medical specialist

the doctor would confirm what we already know Hes got princess syndrome

 

[Murk]

Aspergers or mild autism is definitely a good shout.