"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think I'm getting a bad reputation

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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doctor1996

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Just stop This nonsense, ignore them both and go about your business. When You see them You flirt and take them both home for a threesome
Yeah no. Terrible advice. They might not even know they're both talking to me. I read your posts. You try to come off mysterious. And I want to do the same as well.

My campus is big. My school has 30k students. You really think I'm going to see them?
 

derby1

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youll pursue the one hard the other one will back off....then the the one whos fed you bait Will ghost you or fade, there doing this together.!!...the only way Any jealousy would have been created is if youd kissed and banged and you havent, there not jealous of nothing

go low contact on both and get your head straight for a day
 
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