"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think i'm gettin better at the whole prizing thing

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Well i was textin this one girl last night maybe a hb6, nothin great but i wanted to work on my game a little, and anyways she's a really cool person.

So while we're textin i figured i'd go a little c&f so i put

Me: Well first off i thnik i'm too badass for you, and second if i could change the letters of the alphabet...

I remembered seein the stars thing a while ago and i figured it would be somethin funny to try, and with the first statement i figured it would be a good way to get her to try and qualify herself for me.

So from there the convo went somethin like this

her:no way lol and if you could change the letters of the alphabet...
me:well prove me wrong then, and i probably wouldn't cuz it's really mess everyone up
her:how do i prove you wrong, and why did you put that then
me: lol you have to prove it to me member, and cuz i like sayin weird things
her:how
me: your the girl here
her: lol how do i do that
me: show me that your crazy or fiesty
her: why would i do that
me: cuz you wanna prove that you can handle me
her: well i'm not crazy beyond reasond but i do have a wildside :)
me: well as proof i'm gonna have to see it
her: lol when will i do this
me: the next time we hangout
her: Alright i'll do my best lol
me: ooh sounds good, well see you later lol
her: k goodnight lol

So I had tried workin on my game before with her, but it's not the best and so it didn't seem like I ever got anywhere, but last night it seems like I finally got somethin accomplished.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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stoner1129 said:
So I had tried workin on my game before with her, but it's not the best and so it didn't seem like I ever got anywhere, but last night it seems like I finally got somethin accomplished.
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It looks like u two were just having a fun convo, thats awesome.

But my advice is not to look at as "c&f", its just about fun thats it. I was in the C&F thing for a long time, and even though I got girls to laugh, touch you or whatever. It wasn't going anywhere, cause I had become dependent on it. So in other words, It was my greatest tool, and my greatest handicap, cause I couldnt get into a regular conversation. But ever since I dropped c&f, I pretty much eliminated the handicap, I can pretty much say whatever I want now, and you'd be surprised, cause girls respond as well if not better, even w/o C&F.

Just a little food for thought.
 
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