"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think im doing something wrong :O

DonDan

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I've gone out with about 3 girls this summer after me and my ex broke up cuz she wasnt giving me pvssy. I think im doing something wrong because Ive lost ALL THOSE GIRLS...

Well I didnt really lose them, but i dumped them and chose not to let it work.

first girl i dumped cuz she forgot to tell me happybirthday, second girl was cuz she didnt deposite money in my account.


Ok, now my recent gf, WHO I JUST DUMPED TODAY. well thinking about it at least.. im choosing not to pick up my calls for a few days after she lied to me. I want to dump her, but like the other girls i dumped, i cant help but think if i dump her i wont get free **** and my d1ck sucked and maybe its not the best choice and maybe i should start doing things different , but how, thats why i come to u guys.

We've been dating for about a month in a half, we've gone out on plenty of dates, a lot of movies, to which shes paid for IT ALL. She always buys my food, pays for my movie ticket, EVERYTHING I ASK FOR. I dont do **** for her either, After she takes me out to the movies and to eat, we go back to my place and i have her suck my d1ck.. Seriously. I thought she would make a good girl for the mean time until i decided to find someone else to my team... But i guess shes gone. her interest level was high for me, but anyways i wanna dump her because yesterday i called her and she didnt return my phone call all day till night.

She gave me some excuse, saying she left it in her friends car and she was helping her move out her place all day into a condo and her friends were helping too ( 4 guys), and she said she didnt realize her phone wasnt on her all day and she had left it in her friends car, but she still had access to phone to call her dad, and she didnt come home till 3 am last night and she lied and said she came home at 12 when i called her house at 12 and her parents said she was gone. So she lied. Shes done. Oh btw, we always hung out on her free days from work and now we didnt cuz ive had tonsilitus for 3 weeks... so im choosing to not pick up my phone for 3 days, but do u guys think i should dump her and i am doing the right thing or to handle it another way?


but Am i being too strict???????????? or is there another way to handle this sort of thing.. ?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gangster Of Love

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You're being very immature in your behavior and immature for bragging, even if you are not, it is coming across as.

Sounds like you got issues. If I were them I wouldn't even bother. Good for them.
 

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1st girl - shouldnt have dumped her, not over forgettin ur bday!!! what u shoulda done was make her "pay u back" for forgetting, aka kinda control her and **** with her mind, but nah man dont DUMP her cuz of that

2nd girl - is it money she owed u or were u just trying to pimp her? ;)

3rd girl - She lied to u, so just use her for ***** and dont dump her till u find someone new!!!

also, try dating a few girls at the same time, like a true player........**** this "exclusive" bullshyt man

good luck

by the way, u kno who this is ;)
 

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thanx tough, wat u said makes absolutely perfect sense.

And gangster i wasnt bragging, i was just stating the facts of how this girl treats me. if u see that as a brag then u obviously dont got ur game like that at 33 years old.

Im use to having every girl give me money and deposite **** in my bank and pay for my stuff, thats why i dumped the second girl, she seemed useless. id rather get money than pvssy.

but the 3rd one , well, i dont really care if she hangs out with guys im not insecure in any way, but if a girl thinks she can lie to me like im stupid that bothers me. but oh well, shes dumped in my mind but i will further more just use her to take me see rushour 3. but i will not let her suck my **** or kiss her ANYMORE. mark my words.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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It seems you just want everything done for you. Sure, I like women to do sh!t for me too but, I'm man enough to do stuff on my own then to rely on some stupid ho to pay my taxes. You sound way too shallow in your reasonings of why you dumped your ex's. forgetting to say happy birthday? What are you fvcking kidding me... Other gf wouldnt put money in your account? Whats wrong dog, broke b!tches got your d1ck on a diet? Maybe your better off becoming a pimp and finding some hood rats. You see if your ho's love and respect the pimpin game all you gotta do is be their bank account. But, let me tell you something: "pimpin aint easy." So I suggest you mellow out and find a good woman.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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