“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think im attracted to mellow, smiley, friendly chicks...strange?

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Anyway this just hit me today but i guess it explains everything about myself that i never understood. Generally, most girls i come across im not attracted to, which i've found weird.

I mean generally if i see or meet a hb8/9 i will keep eyeing her, i will find her hot and cannot pull my eyes away. But other than that, there's nothing else i care about.

But if i came across a 7 perhaps like the one in class who always has a mellowy, smiley personality when she talks to me it seems i cant help myself but like her. In the past it's always been like that i suppose. Chicks that show genuine interest in me by asking me questions, i can reciprocate and treat her the same.
Chicks that dont ask anything about me on the other hand, i will feel nothing for...

Can anyone relate?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I am in the same boat as you are in. I love the chic that is cute without makeup, but you can imagine her dressed up and she will automatically turn into a HB9. All my friends and family think I am weird because I bring home 5 or 6, but they always say that we have great chemistry.
 

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I relate very much so. Although, I'll still chat up the Hb9 to see what kind of personality she has because you never know...

Although, I think it's because society has bombarded us so much with the same idea of beauty, that the everyday blonde bombshell is nothing special. I see the same-looking supposed hotties all the time. It gets old, so I love the women who have a cute face without makeup and great personality to match. The cute cuddly ones, I seem to have the best chemistry with, I know what you mean... although, they usually do look like 8-9s with makeup and dressed up as ^ says he imagines them. They just don't dress up often, and don't wear the type of revealing, sexy clothes as often as the typical mtv-brainwashed, laguna-beach or oc-wannabe girl does.
 

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Originally posted by h2o
The cute cuddly ones, I seem to have the best chemistry with, I know what you mean... although, they usually do look like 8-9s with makeup and dressed up as ^ says he imagines them. They just don't dress up often, and don't wear the type of revealing, sexy clothes as often as the typical mtv-brainwashed, laguna-beach or oc-wannabe girl does.
yea i know, it was a rainy day today and that girl in my class wore some crappy jeans and jacket...her ass disappeared somewhere, she sure wasnt dressed to kill but i find i actually can admire a girl for just being herself w/o superficialness.

Honestly a lot of times i just feel like an object, girls i walk pass theyll be glancing or looking at me. I guess in my situation when i come across a girl that likes me for me (ask questions about me), something inside me lights up.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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